BOOK the FIFTH
The Self-Action Leadership MODEL
Dedicated to...
My Father—Rex Buckley Jensen—A BUILDER
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Rex Buckley Jensen Circa 1979 |
And to all BUILDERS—Yesterday, Today, and Forever
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Chapter 1
The Builders
I have always admired BUILDERS.
My dad was a builder.
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Dad with my four older brothers on the construction site of our family home where I lived for 11 of my first 18 years. Circa 1975 |
Always an entrepreneur at heart, Dad also started a business building custom-made shelves in customer's garages. He did this—and a variety of other side gigs over the years—to supplement his modest teacher's salary; raising seven kids was not cheap!
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JJ kneeling next to a set of finished garage shelves as an employee of JB Shelving. Circa 2001 |
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Dad's apartment complex under construction Monticello, Utah Circa early 1980s. |
After retiring from his career in construction, education, photography, real estate, trampoline sales, and everything else he did over the years, Dad did something that was classically him. At age 65, he and my step-mom set to work building their dream home on their own land with their own four hands and an occasional hired hand or two.
Now, you must understand, Dad's dream home is no modest retirement cottage. It is a 47-foot high, 5-story, 8,000 square foot mountain abode complete with four wood-burning fireplaces, a library with thousands of books, a home theater, and other features emblematic of he and my step-mom's unique personalities and stylistic preferences.This project would have been audaciously ambitious for a 35-year old ace builder in the prime of his life. For Dad—a retired senior citizen pushing 70—it proved to be one of the most painstaking, yet pleasurable and satisfying undertakings of his life. At one point during the framing process, a strong gust of wind blew down the first two stories of walls. That didn't stop Dad. He simply cleaned up the mess and began again; that's just the kind of man he is.
It took them many years to get the home fully livable, but they have now lived contentedly in it for nearly a decade—and they continue to work on the ongoing project today, despite Dad's advancing age of 81!
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With my Dad in front of the family home he built. Monticello, Utah Circa 1982 |
For these reasons, I chose to dedicate BOOK the FIFTH to my Dad, whom I love and admire as my father, and more specifically to my Parents, both of whom were extraordinary human beings and impressive builders in their own ways and right.
As a wee lad growing up in rural southeastern Utah, I was a classic "Daddy's Boy." Wherever my dad was, that was where I wanted to be; and wherever my dad went, that is where I wanted to go.
It was a thrilling time and place to be a little boy because my dad was always on the move and continually working on a wide array of different construction-oriented projects. From getting wood up the mountain to building flower beds in the backyard; and from pouring concrete walks to adding on to the house, it seemed there was always something new and exciting going on around the land he owned and the home and apartments he built.
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A very young JJ on an outdoor adventure with Dad. Circa 1984 |
Throughout my childhood, one of Dad's and my favorite things to do together was visit dams, and especially new earthen dam under construction. He'd drive up as close as possible to the dam site so we could soak in the beautiful views of massive bulldozers, dump trucks, excavators, and wheel tractor scrapers busy at work. Those gargantuan earthen (or concrete) dams were as beautiful to Dad and I as they are functional and important to society. Watching those enormous machines at work on such projects always provided us with a thrill.
To this day, one of my hobbies is to visit construction sites and watch experts build homes, buildings, roads, bridges, and skyscrapers. I especially admire master masons and have a special place in my heart for bricklayers. To me, it is awe-inspiring to behold a mason mix and then manipulate mortar into creative and precise outlays of beautiful brick or elegant stone.
To me, some of the most glorious sights and sounds in all the world come from an artist or builder as he or she fashions something with one's hands that is either attractive, useful, or both.
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Crooked brick and mortar garden box Dr. JJ built himself Conroe (Houston) Texas Circa 2013 |
It doesn't take much creativity, education, or planning to critique, criticize, or tear something down. But it takes an authentic, courageous, knowledgeable, skilled, determined, and persistent person to build something up.
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Excerpt from Chaucer in Old English Geoffrey Chaucer is considered the "Father of English Poetry" |
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This poem, and many others like it, have filled me with an appreciation for poetry's capacity to teach moral lessons in beautiful, inspiring, and memorable ways. Such poems perpetually fill my mind, heart, and soul with pleasure, joy, and gratitude, influencing me to memorize them for ready recitation at appropriate opportunities of edification, education, or just pleasure and entertainment. More significantly, they motivate me to work hard and strive diligently to make something grand out of my life—and to influence others to make something grand out of theirs.

If you were a licensed contractor, what kinds of construction projects would you like to build, and why?
What kind of metaphysical construction projects (e.g. character building and personality refinement) would you like to undertake as part of your SAL Study?
What "Builders" (e.g. leaders, parents, teachers, coaches, mentors, siblings, friends, etc.) have helped to build or otherwise positively impact your life?
—Dr. JJ
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Chapter 1 Notes
1. The literary style and syntax employed in this otherwise original poem was borrowed from a similar style used in paragraph 16 of an October 2000 speech entitled, The Joy of Womanhood, by Margaret D. Nadauld. My thanks to Mrs. Nadauld for inspiring me with her stirring delivery and well-crafted prose, which I have seen fit to imitate herein.
2. Longfellow, H.W. The Day is Done, reprinted from The Poetical Works of Longfellow (1912). Henry Frowde, Oxford University Press. Page 186.
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