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Wednesday, February 7, 2024

The Age of Authenticism

 

Chapter 7


The Age of Authenticism 




The world has enough Fiction,
                                                Façade,
                                                            Farce,
                                                                      Fraud, &
                                                                                Facsimile.

The world needs more TRUTH and integrity.

        It needs more authenticity, and it needs it badly.

René Descartes
1596-1650
Life is REAL...

It is not a dream or mirage. It is not some ethereal hallucination we merely imagine is occurring. It is an authentic experience rooted squarely in reality that exists just as surely as YOU and me. As the famous French philosopher, Réne Descartes, so cogently argued some four centuries ago: I think, therefore, I am. 


"I think, therefore I am."

—Réne Descartes


There are a lot of philosophies and ideologies out there willing to fill your mind with fiction and fear. My job in creating this Life Leadership textbook is to fill your mind with facts and FAITH—faith in Universal Laws and faith in your own capacity to understand and abide by the True Principles that accompany them.

At Freedom Focused, we further aim to fill your mind, heart, and soul with HOPE—hope for the endless happiness and blessings that eventually accompany authentic personal and professional freedom and growth.  

As human beings our experiences are shaped and ultimately defined by the choices we make. Regulated by the passage of time, right choices will result in success, happiness prosperity, and most importantly, freedom. On the other hand, wrong choices will result in failure, misery, penury, and bondage.

In the final analysis, life really is that simple—not to be confused with that easy. 

Human beings have a remarkable capacity for creativity and stubbornness when it comes to making excuses for why things didn't, or aren't, turning out quite right in their lives. 

From blaming genetic predispositions, chemical imbalances, and mimetic influences to scapegoating structural inequities, past disadvantages, and bad luck—a wide swath of humanity seems convinced they are not to blame when their state of mind, heart, body, career, or life is in disarray or distress. 

While past and present life adversities and unfairness present real challenges that should be appropriately addressed insofar as possible, they don't have to completely define your life's story—unless you choose to let them.  

Things typically turn out badly for those who harbor a victim's mentality. In the mind of a victim, undesirable life scenarios and circumstances are always the fault of someone or something else. Such is the distorted belief system of those inhabiting the bubble world of blame. 

In reality, the results you get in the long-run are determined with quasi-mathematical precision by the choices YOU make. There are, of course, legitimate exceptions to this overarching generalization, something I'll discuss at great length in BOOK the THIRD, Chapter 7, which is entitled: Life Leadership Variables. 

Nevertheless, the universal Law of the Harvest—as you sow, so shall ye reap—remains an irrevocable and effervescent truism that can never be wished away by the whimsy of mankind's sometimes flimsy intellect and mercurial inclinations. 

This particular "True Principle" is further illuminated by the "Karma concept," which posits that, what goes around comes around, or, put another way: whatever you send out into your life will inevitably boomerang right back to you... with interest!

Making right choices is not always that easy. 

But the formula for achieving lasting success in any life arena is that simple. 

Fortunately, Universal Laws exist, govern absolutely, and provide a sure way to happiness, success, and freedom. They are also relatively easy to understand. 

If you are interested in becoming a self-action leader, the time has come for YOU to stop making excuses for your personal problems, inadequacies, and failures, and begin taking complete personal responsibility for everything in your life that you can either control or influence. 

I recognize this is a very black-and-white way of looking at a world ever colored in a spectrum of situational grays. Such circumstantial cloudiness can create profound ambiguity about the way things really are in the world and universe. In the midst of such mortal mystifications—which we all must pass through—dark distortions and dour delusions often seem like horrifying realities. The only escape from the ashen lenses through which we all must peer in this world lies in right thinking, speaking, doing, and being.

There is no other way.

        The principle is that simple in theory. 

                And the application is that difficult in practice.  


The Need for Unsophisticated Truisms

I am aware how naïve and provincial such statements sound to many in our postmodern world, and that is precisely what makes them so beautiful, profound, and desperately needed throughout our troubled nation and planet.  

The world has enough sophistication and rationalization; it needs more common sense and integrity. It has enough selfishness and hedonism; it needs more self-restraint and honor. It has enough sarcasm and greed; it needs more sincerity and goodness. It has enough deception and derision; it needs more truth telling and encouragement. The world has enough fake; it needs more real. It has enough authoritative caricature; it needs more authentic character.  (1)

In short, the world needs more self-action leaders, and the key to their development and proliferation lies in the pedagogical promotion of basic, unsophisticated truisms rooted in common sense. 

That is what SAL principles and practices offer. 


A Critique of Postmodernism

Postmodernism is a term assigned to an influential intellectual and cultural movement that has had a tremendous impact on academia, politics, entertainment, fashion, and virtually everything else  in the Western World since World War II. Postmodernism posits that nothing really exists except that which is constructed through language, perceived through our limited senses, or that which is decreed by postmodernists themselves to be real, or true.

Postmodernism turns traditional notions of "Right" and "wrong"—and morality in general—on its head. To a postmodernist, there really isn't any right or wrong in any absolute sense. Instead of fixed and irrevocable truisms rooted in Universal Law, postmodernists see right and wrong as subjective terms that may be flexibly applied to different situations based on arbitrary agendas and personal pet (or political) projects.

Simply stated, postmodernism (aka poststructuralism) is: an over-zealous philosophical ideology that denies and discredits the existence of moral absolutes.


POSTMODERNISM / POSTSTRUCTURALISM

A philosophical ideology that denies and discredits the existence of moral absolutes.


Vestiges of postmodern philosophy can be observed in academe, politics, and culture throughout the Western World and beyond. The entertainment industry is particularly preferential of postmodern premises, evinced by their common iteration and reiteration in screenplays and musical lyrics. 


"We don't need no education
We don't need no thought control ...
Hey! Teacher, leave them kids alone."

—Pink Floyd
From their hit song, Another Brick in the Wall, Part 2



"Pay my respects to grace and virtue
Send my condolences to good...
Wave goodbye ... You got to let me go."

—The Killers
From their hit song, Are We Human?



"Nothing really matters
Anyone can see ...
Nothing really matters to me." 

—Queen
From their hit song, Bohemian Rhapsody?



Principles of postmodernism promote a convenient credo of moral relativism, thus affording human beings with pretended power to redefine moral principles to suit their own capricious conceptions of Right and wrong. However sophisticated or well-intentioned its authors and acolytes may be, the fruits of foraying into postmodern premises and practices have been frighteningly foul in the past, perennially perverted in the present, and point to an ever darker and foreboding future. 

Wittingly or not, postmodernists seek to elevate human beings into godlike figures with the power to determine what is and isn't real on the contradictory premise that nothing really is anyway, except that which is critically constructed by language and the pompous proclamations of postmodernists themselves. And speaking of critics and criticism, postmodernism is full of both; after all, the movement is largely rooted in philosophical and literary criticism.

The problem with critics is that they are almost always "Big talkers, but Little doers."


"Big talkers, little doers."

—Benjamin Franklin


The cultural "produce" harvested from the "gardens" of postmodernism consists largely of selfishness, hedonism, narcissism, nihilism, confusion, and hopelessness. 

Not exactly an honorable track record!

With the perpetual production of such unsavory fruit, one must wonder why Western society has—for the past 80 years—embraced postmodernism with such an ironically evangelical zeal. 

Technological advancements, the Information Age, and the end of widespread agrarianism were bound to clamor for a contrast to erstwhile intellectual fashions and foundations. But sadly, their vacuously inauthentic product—bereft of any basis in reality—has borne the bitter fruit of a rotten crop.  

The aim of Self-Action Leadership is not to create critics, but to develop doers. It seeks to teach and train those whose desires lie not outside the stadium in the cirque du critique, but inside the arena on the PLATFORMS of PERFORMANCE.

In the inspired and ennobling words of Theodore Roosevelt:
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."  (2)
As Bryant S. Hinckley once noted: Cynics do not contribute, skeptics do not create, doubters do not achieve. 


"Cynics do not contribute, skeptics do not create, doubters do not achieve."

—Bryant S. Hinckley


Following World War II, the West entered a period of largely uninterrupted prosperity. These good times have blessed the United States—and the rest of the world—with the opportunity to develop an intellectual class of unprecedented size and scope. It has also afforded society with an unprecedented acquisition of both riches and leisure time. 

These developments have provided legions of individuals with opportunities and mobility hitherto unknown in the annals of human history. But as is often the case, blessings often carry the seeds of accompanying curses, which must be carefully guarded against lest they spoil the fortune and favors. 


Again, in the incisive words of Roosevelt:
  

Anyone can stand around and criticize the work of others.
Real credit should go to actual artists who produce the work.
"There are certain failings against which it is especially incumbent that both [people] of trained and cultivated intellect, and [people] of inherited wealth and position should especially guard themselves, because to these failings they are especially liable; and if yielded to, their—your—chances of useful service are at an end. Let the [man or woman] of learning, the [person] of lettered leisure, beware of that queer and cheap temptation to pose to himself and to others as a cynic, as the [person] who has outgrown emotions and beliefs, the [person] to whom good and evil are as one. The poorest way to face life is to face it with a sneer. There are many [people] who feel a kind of twisted pride in cynicism; there are many who confine themselves to criticism of the way others do what they themselves dare not even attempt. There is no more unhealthy being, no [person] less worthy of respect, than he who either really holds, or feigns to hold, an attitude of sneering disbelief towards all that is great and lofty, whether in achievement or in that noble effort which, even if it fails, comes second to achievement. A cynical habit of thought and speech, a readiness to criticize work which the critic himself never tries to perform, an intellectual aloofness which will not accept contact with life's realities—all these are marks, not as the possessor would fain to think, of superiority but of weakness. They mark the [people] unfit to bear their part painfully in the stern strife of living, who seek, in the affection of contempt for the achievements of others, to hide from others and from themselves in their own weakness. The role is easy; there is none easier, save only the role of the [person] who sneers alike at both criticism and performance." (3)

While postmodernist thought originated largely amongst the philosophical and literary intelligentsia, its insidious messages of moral relativism soon spread to infect entire cultures and governments throughout the West and beyond with the popular, albeit patently erroneous, notion that there really isn't any absolute truth.

The result?

Legions were sucked into an infernal black hole of cryptic and convoluted intellectualism as its message crept into—and eventually cloaked—the balance of society and culture in the corrupt philosophy of anything goes. 

The collateral damage of this ideology to the moral pulse and existential progress of an entire planet has been, in many ways, calamitous—and in some cases, fatal. 

Postmodernism has even sought to rewrite history, or at least cast a negative shadow on some of history's greatest acts, actors, and achievements. Not all such aims have been bad. In some cases, history needed to be rewritten to reflect greater accuracy and holism in conjunction with removing some of the scales and shadows removed from some of its darker moments and secrets. 

In many cases, however, in an attempt to achieve unrealistic social justice goals such as equality of outcome, history has too often been deconstructed and recast to make the good guys (who were certainly not perfect) out to be fiends, while re-diagnosing some of the genuine devils as being merely misguided, mentally ill, mismanaged, or misunderstood—rather than the diabolical tyrants that they actually were. 

This Life Leadership textbook was written in part as a comprehensive response to the negative cultural consequences of postmodernism. It seeks to resurrect an academic accession of absolute truth along with its precious virtues of dignity, honor, self-discipline, self-restraint, self-reliance, individual liberty, personal freedom, and realism upon which all of history's lasting success stories were, are, and will yet be built. 

This text further seeks to champion these virtues in nations, governments, states, communities, organizations, schools, families, relationships, and most importantly: individual lives. 

I love my country—and the world at large—too much to stand idly by and watch it perish in the perfidious and profane pages of postmodern philosophy and philology. It took the better part of a century to get to the unstable place where we currently stand, and it will take several decades and much work to reverse the deep damage that has already been done.

The good news is the damage is not irreversible!

        Indeed, I believe my nation and world's best days are still ahead of us. 


Prestructuralism: Postmodernism's Polar Opposite

Postmodernism is an example of the philosophy embraced by the left-wing, liberal extremes in a society. But that is only one side of the danger. The far-right, conservative extreme can prove just as dangerous. While the pathways to these ideological polar opposites is extremely different, their terminal destination is, ironically, the same awful location—even that politically polluted place where liberty dies and freedom is suppressed. 

The term we use at Freedom Focused to describe postmodernism's philosophical inverse is PRESTRUCTURALISM, which is defined as: an over-zealous philosophical ideology that postures erroneous ideas as moral absolutes. 


PRESTRUCTURALISM

A philosophical ideology that postures erroneous ideas as moral absolutes.


Prestructuralism metaphorically refers to a state of mind or ideology that exists before a solid structure (philosophy) rooted in Universal Laws has been well established in a person's mind, or in a group, society, culture, or nation. It is a primitive state of morality marked by superstitions, false scientific conjectures, and perverted religious extremist paradigms.

Conversely, postmodernism metaphorically refers to a state of mind or ideology that exists after a solid structure rooted in Universal Laws has been eroded. It is a perverted scholarly version of morality that results when highly sophisticated academics try to rationalize away traditional moral structures and/or visceral wisdom (i.e. CONSCIENCE) rooted in Universal Laws that have stood the test of time.  

The answer to mitigating these two problematic polar extremes in thinking and seeing lies in identifying a virtuous BALANCE between prestructuralism and poststructuralism (aka postmodernism).

At Freedom Focused, we refer to this balance as MORAL STRUCTURALISM, or just structuralism for short. Moral Structuralism refers to: a balanced moral philosophy based on True Principles rooted in Universal Laws.


MORAL  STRUCTURALISM

A balanced moral philosophy based on True Principles rooted in Universal Laws.


Moral structuralism is a means of
BALANCING the extremes of 
prestructuralism and postmodernism
Moral structuralism represents an Aristotelian "Golden Mean," or balance, between the two extremes of prestructuralism and poststructuralism (or postmodernism). 

According to Aristotle, virtue will never be found in extremes, but rather in a balance between extremes. Aristotelian extremes include "deficiency"on one extreme end of a spectrum and "excess" on the opposite extreme end. 

Another name for the Golden Mean is the "Goldilocks Zone"—where things are "just right"—in the middle ground between extremes.

PRESTRUCTURALISTS inhabit the "deficiency" extreme and suffer from a lack of rational thought. 

POSTMODERNISTS inhabit the "excess" extreme and suffer from rational thought gone awry.

MORAL STRUCTURALISTS inhabit the virtuous balance of Aristotle's Golden Mean between the two extremes and benefit from thought processes properly balanced between rationalism and visceralism (i.e. emotiveness and intuition).  

Prestructuralists err because their intellect fails to reach the mark. Postmodernists err because their intellect overshoots the mark. Moral structuralists, on the other hand, hit the intended mark—or as close to it as is humanly possible.  

And what exactly is "the Mark"?

"The mark" represents whatever goodness, rightness, truth, and virtue that is achieved by locating an ideal balance between prestructural and poststructural (or postmodern) extremes. 

While prestructuralists zealously promote false notions they claim are absolute, postmodernists seek to rationalize away absolutes entirely. Both prestructuralists and postmodernists are misguided in their approach and results because they are extreme and fall far afield of the happy medium or Golden Mean.

Moral Structuralists, on the other hand, are laser-focused on identifying what is absolutely true (or false) and then abiding by whatever correct moral structures they ascertain, discover, learn, observe, et cetera in a balanced way that appropriately takes into account reasonable and rational "exceptions to the rule." 

Two of the most poignant and salient historical examples of prestructuralism (far right political ideology) are Nazi Germany and Islamic extremist terrorists. Hitler's erroneous "truth" heralded his supposed superiority of the Aryan race. Islamic extremist terrorist's false "truth" sanctions the murderous killing of Christians, Jews, and other "heathens" (Westerners).  

A prominent historical example of postmodernism (far left political ideology) is the former Soviet Union. 

As Soviet communists made good on their efforts to eliminate dissent, squelch individual liberties, and control the press, truth itself began to die. The only "truth" that remained was the arbitrary messaging and iron-fisted will of the state apparatus. The result? Tens of millions of citizens and soldiers died in Stalin's far left famines and purges in the 1930s—and then later against Hitler's far right military might in World War II in the 1940s.

Ironically, both extremes—despite their ideological polar opposition to each other—end up in essentially the same place, which always bears the hallmarks of tyranny, deceit, destruction, and death. After all, which is really worse in the end: Hitler or Stalin? Sane-minded persons will rightfully eschew both extremes.

Given the self-evident reality that a better way exists than either of these two calamitous extremes, readers can take hope in the possibility of a new age, even an age of Self-Action Leadership, or an AGE of AUTHENTICISM.  


The Age of Authenticism


The time has come for the candor and actuality of authenticity to eclipse the pernicious perjury and perfidious presumption of prestructuralism and postmodernism. 

It is time for something REAL.

The dawning of a new age—even an AGE of AUTHENTICISM—answers this clarion call of the cynical, sarcastic, synthetic, and sinful era in which recent generations have too long resided.

I cannot claim credit for coining this new term, but I concur with its originator—the British novelist Edward Docx—that "Postmodernism is dead," (4) or at very least has finally begun to atrophy around its cancerous core, which will eventually cave in on itself as it gradually crumbles into the diabolical dust from whence it was constructed.

At Freedom Focused, we believe history will eventually credit authenticism with transcending postmodernism and replacing it with something as new as it is old, and that remains perennially and effervescently vital; namely: character, courage, goodness, love, kindness, truth, and virtue in all of their authentic splendor. 

At Freedom Focused, we are absolutely committed to promoting and championing this new Age of Authenticism throughout the world, and invite YOU to add your passion, voice, and talents to our ever-increasing choir of self-action leaders.  

Self-Action Leadership is designed to serve as an intellectual exponent of this new movement that is rejecting "postmodernism with all its detachment and deconstruction," (5) and entering a nobler place where "some things are pure and some things are right." (6)

Postmodernism is the business of critics, curmudgeons, and power-hungry politicians and potentates. Similarly, prestructuralism is the business of tyrants, terrorists, and irrational fanatics. 

Moral Structuralism on the other hand—and the reality, truth, character, integrity, and authenticity that it spawns—is the business of principle-centered poets and self-action leaders. 

In the invigorating and inspiring prose of G.K. Chesterton:

"There is at the back of all our lives an abyss of light, more blinding and unfathomable than any abyss of darkness; and it is the abyss of actuality, of existence, of the fact that things truly are, and that we ourselves are incredibly and sometimes incredulously real. It is the fundamental fact of being, as against not being; it is unthinkable, yet we cannot unthink it, though we may sometimes be unthinking about it; unthinking and unthanking. For he who has realized this reality knows that it does outweigh, literally to infinity, all lesser regrets or arguments for negation, and that under all our grumblings there is a subconscious substance of gratitude. That light of the positive is the business of the poets." (7)

If you seek greater authenticity in your life and relationships, as well as throughout your nation and world, I invite you to join us in this fresh new movement of education and action that engenders real hope and leads to authentic change and growth. This place of light, of reality, of authenticity, is a glorious place to live and work. It is the promised land of hope and the real address of growth and change.

Most importantly, it is the gateway to both individual liberty and personal freedom.   

We at Freedom Focused further invite YOU to join us on this journey to truly authentic living—a land where all people possess opportunities that are both real and endless. There can be no greater opportunity, speaking individually or collectively.


Avoiding Victimization and Discouraging Grievance

Every human being has so much potential that it sincerely saddens me when I see victimization heralded and grievance trumpeted upon the rooftops while opportunity is but whispered—and especially in segments of society where opportunities are most scarce and hope is most vulnerable. 

Indeed, it bereaves all of us at Freedom Focused to see the best in human beings and communities being squandered on residual reflections on the worst that may have happened to individuals or groups in the past—or on real or perceived slights in the present. 

The time has come for society-at-large to spend less time talking about how oppressed some people were in the past, and spend a lot more time proclaiming how profoundly capable these same people are in the present—and how tremendously positive their potential is for the future if they are given the opportunity to learn SAL and apply it in concert with the grace, mercies, and powers of Serendipity.  

Instead of crying out about limitations, let's proclaim from the tallest towers in the land how innately creative, talented, and intelligent all human beings are, and how limitless their potential is when properly taught, positively encouraged, productively directed, and rightly resourced.   

Let's spend less time telling people how hard they had it (or have it) and invest more time and effort in promoting their potential for transcendence and success—even in the face of great external difficulties or persisting structural inequities—if they are but given a chance to learn and then demonstrate a willingness and desire to diligently apply their acquired knowledge. 

Please don't misunderstand what I am trying to say here. I am not suggesting we ignore persisting structural inequities in society. Indeed, we must continually fight against the pernicious problems of bigotry, racism, sexism, xenophobia, and evil of all kinds wherever it nestles and festers. At the same time, however, we must be cautious of going to extremes in such crusades, lest we fall prey to the ironic trap of engaging in a reverse form of the very thing we claim to be fighting against. 

What I am suggesting is the promotion of a pedagogy of possibility as an alternative to the derailing dogma of grievance that has been proven to be such a prevailing co-conspirator with postmodernism to poison the waters of hope, optimism, and possibility for so many otherwise creative, intelligent, and capable human beings in our twenty-first century global society.  


Our Call for Widespread Cultural Change

The rooftop and bell tower cry of Freedom Focused, and our grand, overriding purpose of introducing Self-Action Leadership to the world, is our clarion call for widespread—even international—cultural change.

Nay; that is too weak. 

        Our call is for global cultural TRANSFORMATION. 

The societal renewal and reinvigoration we speak of will be rooted in self-renewal, and will occur ONE person at-a-time in absolute accordance with the free will of each individual. In other words, Freedom Focused will never coerce anyone to become a self-action leader. 

Attempting such a perverted pathway of conversion would not only compromise our own clearly proclaimed values, principles, and practices. Moreover, it would ultimately prove untenable—even impossible!  

While human beings can be coerced to say or do some things against their will at gunpoint or through fear or other threats, no one can ever truly be coerced to think or believe something against their own, free will. Our recognition of this great truth is so fundamental and primal that it undergirds everything we think about, say, and do as individuals and an organization.  

We can promote, persuade, instruct, and invite... but never force Self-Action Leadership. 

Nor will we ever try to do so.  

Over time, as the numbers and quality of self-action leaders willingly increases, said individuals will eventually lead to organizational, national, and then international reformation, reinvigoration, restoration, reimagining, and finally reinventing. As a result, and despite whatever challenges and calamities we may collectively face in the years ahead, individual self-action leaders have every reason to be hopeful, optimistic, and even excited about the future. 

I am under no illusions about the difficulty of the task that lies before us. 

Cultural transformations do not happen overnight. 

It took many decades—eight (8) to be exact—for postmodernism to become sufficiently entrenched in academe and the media to pollute our culture to the point it has today. More recently, prestructuralist extremists have further complicated things with initiatives of an opposing extremity. It will, therefore, take at least a couple of decades for the AGE of AUTHENTICISM to effectively eclipse both prestructuralism and postmodernism and reverse their poisonous effects on a large scope and scale. 

In the meantime, the cycles of history suggest that we may in coming years be approaching another national and/or international calamity and conflict on part with the two World Wars and the economic Great Depression of the last century. 

Dubbed "the Crisis of 2020" by generational scholars William Strauss and Neil Howe, it is predicted that this pending crisis will occur sometime before the end of the 2020s and "will be a major turning point in American [and World] history." (8) At this "adrenaline-filled moment of trial" people everywhere "will feel that the fate of posterity—for generations to come—hangs in the balance." (9)

"The crisis will be a pivotal moment in the lifecycles of all generations alive at the time. The sense of community will be omnipresent. Moral order will be unquestioned with 'rights' and 'wrongs' crisply defined and obeyed. Sacrifices will be asked, and given. [We] will be implacably resolved to do what needs doing, and fix what needs fixing." (10)

History is not a perfect predictor of the future, and even if it were, self-action leaders understand the futility in living anywhere other than the PRESENT. Nevertheless, by seizing present moments to study the past and ready ourselves for the future, we will be better prepared to effectively combat whatever internal enemies or external foes that cross our path in days to come. 

However long it takes, our efforts to be victorious in this crucible-to-come, as well as our endeavors to transform culture into a place that values character, competence, and integrity—will be worth it. Moreover, the exhilarating journey that takes us to that promised land will be packed with opportunities for personal growth and positive relationship building at every turn.

We are excited about this journey and hope you will choose to join us for the ride of your life and/or career. Join us, and together we will travel ever-closer to our still unreached potential as a nation and planet. There can be no greater national or global quest, a crusade that beings with the ONE—with YOU and with me.

In the meantime, may each of us continually recall the timeless wisdom of one of the greatest self-action leaders the world has ever seen, who reminds us that: YOU must be the change you wish to see in the world.


"You must be the change you wish to see in the world."

—Mohandas Gandhi






In Your Journal

  • Do you ever fall prey to mindsets of petty cynicism, unfair criticism, or irresponsible victimization? If so, how so, and what is something you could do beginning TODAY to rise above these negative and counterproductive mindsets?
  • Think about the last time you blamed someone or something else for the state of your education, career, relationships, or life. Do YOU bear any personal responsibility for your situation or circumstances being what they are? 
  • What is something you could do TODAY to change your thoughts, speech, or behavior in a way that would have a positive impact on your present circumstances over time?  

—Dr. JJ

Wednesday, February 7, 2024
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 7 Notes:

1. The literary style and rhythm in this paragraph—and others like it throughout this book—are borrowed from a similar style used in paragraph 16 of an October 2000 speech entitled The Joy of Womanhood, delivered by Margaret D. Nadauld. My thanks to Mrs. Nadauld for inspiring me with her stirring delivery and well-crafted prose.

2.  Roosevelt, T. (1910). Citizenship in a Republic. Speech delivered at the Sorbonne in Paris, France, on April 23, 1910. 

3.  Ibid.  

4.  Docx, E. (2011). Postmodernism is Dead. Prospect Magazine. 20 July 2011. URL: https://www.prospectmagazine.co.uk/essays/49336/postmodernism-is-dead

5.  Pastabagel (2011). Partial Objects (blog article). 19 August 2011. URL no longer available.

6.  Arcade Fire. (2010). Month of May. Written by: Win Butler, Regine Chassagne, William Butler, Tim Kingsbury, Richard R. Parry, Jeremy Gara.

7.  Chesterton, G.K. (2008). Geoffrey Chaucer. Cornwall, UK: House of Stratus. Page 15.

8.  Strauss W. & Howe, N. (1991). Generations: The History of America’s Future, 1584-2069. New York, NY: Quill (William Morrow). Page 382.

9.  Ibid.

10.  Ibid.  


Wednesday, January 3, 2024

A Formula for CHANGE


Chapter 2


A Formula for CHANGE 




Enemies of Personal Change

There are many enemies of personal change. These enemies seek to inhibit your liberty to choose the pathway that will lead to your greatest long-term potential for growth, happiness, progress, success, and inner peace. 

The onslaught of these enemies attacks you in a variety of ways from all different directions. You have probably heard the voices of these enemies many times throughout your life. The echo of their refrains include statements such as:

"I was born this way and can never hope to change."

        "It's the fault of my genes or memes, which I am powerless to change." 

                "Changing would crimp my individuality and style and make me just one of the herd." 

                        "This is just the way I am and I (and everyone else) should just accept it." 

                "Even if changing was possible, it'd be too hard and not worth my effort." 

        "Possible or not, I don't want to change." 

"I simply can't change, even if I wanted to." 


My Battles with Change

My life has been, and continues to be, a battle with change. 

These battles started early. For example, I sucked my left index finger until I was TEN YEARS OLD! I can remember as a third grader how embarrassed I was that I struggled with this puerile practice and gross habit. I even developed various rituals to hide my finger for fear of any peering eyes of my peers. I did not want them to see the visible consequences of my childish addiction.  

During the summer prior to my 10th birthday (in between third and fourth grades), I began to ponder on the oddity and immaturity of a ten-year-old addicted to sucking his finger. 

Such shame-ridden musings led me to carefully consider the implications of breaking my absurdly prolonged habit—and the future forebodings (social and otherwise) of failing to do so. In the process of this reflective introspection, I concluded it was time to take the high road and choose to quit. 

Thus, I resolved that on August 21st, 1989 (my tenth birthday), I would stop sucking my finger. Mustering up all the conviction, courage, resolve, and will power I possessed, I began my quest to quit.

Doing so was very difficult. For the first several months, I was tempted daily or even hourly—sometimes terribly so—to return to my bad habit. 

On two occasions, the temptation proved too great for my will to resist, and I relapsed briefly. After each of these "slips" I picked myself up and tried again. I was absolutely determined to succeed, and eventually succeeded in my quest. 

It took a long time before the urge to suck my finger left me entirely; but the cravings did diminish gradually over time. After several years, my desire to suck my finger finally abated completely. Today, in my mid-40s, the thought of sucking my finger is disgusting and repulsive to me. In regards to this particular issue and bad habit, I have succeeded in completely changing. However, to this very day, my left index finger remains slightly smoother (more worn or weathered) than my right index finger—a minor, but irreversible lingering consequence and reminder of my decision to engage in that particular bad habit for all those years of my childhood. 

If only finger sucking was my life's only addiction, bad habit, or vice! 

In the years since I succeeded in overcoming my finger sucking, I have dealt with an array of additional addictions, bad habits, mental and emotional illnesses, vices, and other shortcomings. Over time, I have made significant progress in achieving positive change and progress in dealing with many of these issues.

It would be nice if I could proclaim that I have completely triumphed over all of them; but the truth is that the struggle goes on; that is the bad news. The good news is that I have come a long way, and the successes of my past and present provide me with hope for an ever brighter future as I remain patient with myself and persistent in my willingness to never give up striving to improve.  

At best, life is still a deeply challenging and frequently frustrating journey. It would be convenient if we could just snap our fingers and will ourselves to authentic personal changes overnight. 

But it doesn't work like that, of course! 

I have been working on some areas of change for years, decades, or even my entire life. Some areas I have mastered; others I have not. Hopefully, through SAL and Serendipity I will master as many of them as possible before my time in this world expires. 

As difficult as change can be, I will never give up trying to become the kind of person I most want to be. This requires that I continue to rise each time I fall; and unfortunately, I fall much more often than I would like. Nevertheless, this self-awareness of my human frailty and imperfections will never stop me from trying.

I believe there is something noble in attempting to improve and change—because even if you fall short, you become something greater than you were before by virtue of having made an effort. And if you never give up trying, you will eventually succeed—often completely, just like I did with my finger-sucking habit. 

When you do succeed, it may seem like a miracle.

And in a very real sense, it is a miracle! 

There is nothing quite so beautiful, attractive, and magnificent as the miracle of change that occurs when a human being becomes something better and greater than they were prior to making the effort.  

If you are anything like me—i.e. a human being—you were born with and presently carry a bag full of your own blemishes and blunders. In the past, you may have tried very hard and been very clever at hiding them from others, and perhaps even from yourself as well. 

But deep down somewhere in the dusty recesses of your mind, heart, and soul, you know they exist, and that they are inhibiting your personal, relational, and professional potential and success.

Even deeper down inside, you also know that many of these issues are not merely the result of genetic, mimetic, historical, or social influences alone; they are also heavily influenced and exacerbated by your own poor choices.

Deeper still, perhaps so deep it resides only in your subconscious mind, you know that you are not helpless to change. You are simply like most of us most of the time—undesiring, and especially unwilling, to do the hard work that change demands. 

The good news is that you don't have to be slaves to your emotions, your genetic code, your mimetic influences, your bad habits, or your past mistakes. You possess the keys to transcend these and other negative forces that are currently working against you or holding you down. 

Simply stated: YOU don't have to be a victim anymore.

        You can choose to be a victor instead.  


Remember


A wise man once remarked that the word "Remember" is the most important word in the English language. G.K. Chesterton—a British writer and philosopher—made a similar comment when he remarked that: We need to be reminded more than we need to be instructed. 


"We need to be reminded more than we need to be instructed."

—G. K. Chesterton


This quote is particularly apropos in regards to adult learners. 

This Life Leadership textbook is designed to remind as much as it is to instruct. It aims to review vital truths of which you may already be aware, but to which you are not currently adhering. It is crafted to inspire you to do what only YOU can choose to do: set in motion the process of authentic personal change. 

If change is possible for me, then change is possible for YOU.

        Of this I am absolutely certain. 

At any point in time throughout your life's journey, excessive effort spent bemoaning missed opportunities of the past is time poorly spent. You cannot change what happened yesterday, last year, or decades ago. 

But, you can choose at any moment—in an instant—to begin the process of positive change moving forward. In truth, right now is the only moment you will ever have. That makes it the most important and valuable moment in your life—every day of your life.

What are YOU going to do with this priceless gift of the present?


"Yesterday is history; tomorrow is a mystery;
TODAY is a gift—that's why they call it the PRESENT."

—Multiple author attributions


A Formula for Authentic Change


How is authentic change accomplished?

Through six simple—but not easy—developmental stages or processes.  

1.  DESIRE

2.  UNDERSTANDING

3.  HUMILITY

4.  WORK

5.  PATIENCE

6.  SERENDIPITY


Process 1.  Desire

The first process involves developing a desire to change that is stronger than the desire not to change. There is only so much I can do to help you with this process. Either you desire to change, or you don't. 

If you do, then these books will be very helpful to you. 

If you don't, then your progress will be limited until you do desire it. 

The question then begs: what can I do to obtain a desire for something I am not presently motivated to do, but that I know would benefit me?

Answers to this question will vary from person-to-person. I cannot speak for others, but I can tell you what has helped me in the past.  

FIRST, I have found that prayer is beneficial. Why? Because I have received many answers to specific prayers with regards to my personal change desires and efforts; I therefore recommend it to you. What do you have to lose to put sincere prayer to the test?

If you choose not to believe in a Deity and would prefer not to pray, then perhaps you might practice something secularly similar to prayer. For example, you might meditate, practice yoga, learn more about the subject of spiritual intelligence, or even try sending out a metaphysical plea into the ether of the Universe. 

Albert Einstein
1879-1955
As strange as some of these activities might sound to those unfamiliar with them, what do you have to lose to try something new
—especially if your past efforts have failed to bring the results you seek? As Albert Einstein is purported to have at least apocryphally remarked: Insanity is doing the same things over and over again while expecting different results.   


"Insanity is doing the same things over and over again while expecting different results."

—Albert Einstein


If you want a different output, you must be willing to invest in a different input; that is just a formulaic reality of mathematics and common sense. 

SECOND, I like to study a situation to acquaint myself with negative consequences that may occur if I don't develop a desire to do (or not do) something. I then focus on the bad things that will happen if I choose to engage something foolish or neglect something needful. For example, if there is something (or someone) who triggers temptation in you, try imagining that thing (or person) as a vicious crocodile or a venomous snake or spider. Or, in the case of an omitted action, try visualizing what you and your life will be like if you continue omitting an important action—and exaggerate the consequences in your imagination for greater emotional impact.  

THIRD, I like to consider how doing (or not doing) something might adversely impact my relationships with other people, especially those persons closest and most important to me such as my wife, family members, friends, close associates, and mentors or teachers. This is an especially powerful exercise for me personally because one of my greatest fears in life is being alone, single, and/or friendless. While I appreciate and enjoy healthy doses of solitude, I also have a deep need for companionship and fraternity. 

If I were to lose my wife, children, or true friends, I would be miserable. 

Knowing this motivates me to take great care to continually nurture my cherished and valued relationships to maximize the likelihood that I will enjoy these blessings in perpetuity. By continually reminding myself that certain behaviors will cause negative consequences to self, others, and my relationships dramatically altering my thoughts, speech, actions, and attitudes in a way that cultivates and nurtures those relationships. 

FOURTH, I like to observe and study those who already possess the desire I lack, but would like to have. I then strive to develop desired attributes and characteristics within my own character.   

FIFTH, I strive to be patient with myself in the same way that I strive to be patient with others. Desire is not something that can just be snapped into existence on demand. More often than not, it develops slowly over long periods of time as you undertake a variety of actions related to all five suggestions listed above. Sometimes, the passage of time may be the most important ingredient of all; so be patient with yourself and don't give up trying to develop the desires you don't naturally possess, but hope to develop. 

For me, desire often starts out as little more than a tiny seed that is virtually unrecognizable from its fruit; it is not yet desire, but merely a desire for the desire: like a shadow of a person or object. If I will then cultivate and nurture this shadow desire patiently over time, it usually will, in its own time, grow and mature into the full-fledged desire itself—or at least significant vestiges thereof—that I ultimately seek.  


Process 2.  Understanding

The second process is to gain an understanding of the principles and practices upon which authentic change is predicated. There is a lot I can do to help you with this process because outlining the principles and practices of personal change is the purpose of this Life Leadership Textbook.  


Process 3.  Humility

Process number three involves TWO (2) different aspects of humility.

The first is to humbly recognize and acknowledge when and where a change is needed in your thoughts, actions, attitudes, etc. The second is to humbly seek out help from others when you are unable to initiate a change on your own. 

Even my best personal efforts were insufficient to overcome many of the biggest challenges in my own life and career. As you come to learn more about my personal and professional backstory, you will see that I had a lot of help from others, including family members, friends, mentors and teachers, professional counselors and doctors, ecclesiastical leaders, and that Higher Power (God). This assistance was essential in finding success in my own change efforts.

For many people, HUMILITY is the most difficult step of all. Admitting you were wrong, flawed, and need help can be devastating to your ego and prove very painful mentally, emotionally, and socially. But no matter how difficult it may be, it is worth it to swallow your pride and humble yourself before facts and reality. 

Your ego can be a huge stumbling block that inhibits your freedom and diminishes your growth potential. 

Humility is the answer to keeping your ego in check.  

At Freedom Focused, we define humility as: an accurate recognition, submissive acknowledgment, and active acceptance of things as they really were, really are, and really will be. 


HUMILITY

An accurate recognition, submissive acknowledgment, and active acceptance 
of things as they really were, really are, and really will be.


Process 4.  Work

Process four requires that you exercise both the courage and willingness to work hard and otherwise put in the effort that authentic change demands. The extent of your courage and the strength of your will to labor diligently, remain focused, and persist until you succeed will largely determine your long-term results in virtually any undertaking, including any change effort. 


Process 5.  Patience

Process five requires that you develop patience. Authentic change rarely happens in a single moment or a few days or weeks. More often than not, an extended period of time is required. When I was just a boy, my father taught me a great truth. Said he: Nothing in life worth having comes fast or easy.


Hyrum Wayne Smith (left) & Rex Buckley Jensen (right)
working together as young missionaries in England.

Circa 1963

"Nothing in life worth having comes fast or easy
."

—Rex Buckley Jensen


Dad was right.

My uncle, Hyrum W. Smith, taught a similarly powerful principle. Said he: Results take time to measure.  (1)


"Results take time to measure."

—Hyrum W. Smith


Uncle Hyrum was also right.

Holy scripture states that it is in our patience that we possess our souls.  Benjamin Franklin added: He who can have patience can have what he will.


Benjamin Franklin
1706-1790

"In your patience possess ye your souls
."

—Luke 21:19  


"He who can have patience can have what he will."

—Benjamin Franklin  

While Franklin's words may seem to overstate the point, I love the nugget of truth contained in this maxim. As a person who has often felt impatient in both my life and career, these words of Franklin's have inspired me greatly to consciously practice and otherwise develop patience. 

Franklin's words are also a sobering reminder that if I fall short in any of the realistic goals I have set for my life or career, it means I am either unwilling to put in the required work or I am failing to exercise sufficient patience. 

Either way, that's on me! 

In other words, if I fail to achieve my life's important and realistic goals in the end, I have no one but myself to blame. 

As you practice being patient in your own life, it is important to remember that authentic patience is an active, not a passive exercise. Being actively patient means a lot more than just waiting around for something to happen. It involves being consistently and productively creative, flexible, and proactive over time with an eye always on the "ball" (goal) while at the same time not being overly fixated on or obsessed about it. 

It is a paradoxical process that requires a delicate and strategic balancing act between earnestly chasing down your dreams while simultaneously letting your dreams find you when the time is right.  (2)  

It also involves continually developing your talents and capacities all along the way. It means that you remain positive and productive even during those frustrating moments in your life or career when you have more time than opportunities. After all, you tend to create opportunities in the future by wisely utilizing time in the present.

"Nature does not hurry; yet everything is accomplished."

~ Lao Tzu
One leader put it this way:

"Patience is not passive resignation, nor is it failing to act because of our fears. Patience means active waiting and enduring. It means staying with something and doing all that we can—working, hoping, and exercising faith; bearing hardship with fortitude, even when the desires of our hearts are delayed. Patience is not simply enduring; it is enduring well!"  (3)

As you practice patience in your life, you may find (as I have) that it is often the most challenging process in any undertaking or change initiative. Nevertheless, it is an absolutely essential ingredient to authentic change—or achieving anything else of lasting significance.

Lao Tzu
6th to 5th century BC
Just as a fruit, vegetable, tree, plant, animal, human being, couple, family, team, organization, community, state, nation, or world doesn't develop its full stature or maturation overnight, authentic changes usually require extended effort and focus over time to realize; there is no other way! 

As the ancient Chinese philosopher, Lao Tzu, once put it: Nature does not hurry; yet everything is accomplished.


"Nature does not hurry; yet everything is accomplished."

—Lao Tzu  


Moreover, you usually can't choose how much time it will take to realize a given change or goal in your life. Your only choice lies in deciding whether or not you will pay the price and endure to the end or give up when the going gets rough—and the process often will be tough; authentic change is rarely easily achieved, nor do significant accomplishments materialize overnight.  


Process 6.  Serendipity


Process six is less of a process and more of a present. The gift I speak of is a metaphysical phenomenon called SERENDIPITY, defined previously in this text as: the felicitous aid of unseen forces. 

The dictionary defines serendipity as: The occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way. (4) At Freedom Focused, we acknowledge those forces (known and unknown) that aid us felicitously in our lives.  

To fully realize change, you must develop the maturity to acknowledge, and the willingness to accept, the fact that you cannot accomplish everything all on your own. You often need help from other people and sources, and sometimes the source of that help—real though it is—will seem nebulous or otherwise unidentifiable.

Think about the last time you heard someone give credit to or otherwise thank "God," "Grace," "Mercy, the "Universe," their "Lucky Stars," their astrological sign, or just plain "Good Luck" for some inexplicable, yet palpable good fortune, instructive tutoring, or other blessing that came their way? When was the last time YOU did this yourself?

Serendipity is a term and concept used to generically describe these kinds of undeniable experiences made possible by forces and sources unrecognizable to the five senses that cannot be entirely accounted for or otherwise explained using logic, math, science, philosophy, or empirical data. 

The existence and occurrence of Serendipity is indisputable to anyone who has experienced it. Moreover, some individuals and groups harbor deep religious or spiritual convictions concerning its ontology and Source.

I, in fact, am one of them.  



In Your Journal

1. What addictions or bad habits do you struggle with?

2. Of all your addictions or bad habits, which ONE do you feel most prepared to begin tackling?

3. What is ONE thing you will do TODAY to begin the process of overcoming this addiction or bad habit?   


—Dr. JJ

Wednesday, January 3, 2024
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 2 Notes

1).  Smith, H.W. (1994). The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management: Proven Strategies for Increased Productivity and Inner Peace. New York, NY: Warner Brooks. Page 145. 

2).  A concept I once learned from my older brother, Joe.

3).  Uchtdorf, D. (2010). From a public address entitled, Continue in Patience. 

4).  New Oxford American Dictionary. Electronic App version. 

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