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Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Rectification

                  

 Chapter 20


Rectification




Construction Stage 2.4   Pouring a Steel-reinforced Concrete Slab

SAL Model Stage 2.4   Rectification


Back in the mid-1980s, when I was just a wee lad attending Sunday School at church, my peers and I used to sing a song about a foolish man and a wise man.

According to this Southern Folk Song, the "foolish man built his house upon the sand" while "the wise man built his house upon the rock." Then, when the "rains came tumbling down" the "house on the sand washed away" while "the house on the rock stood still." (1)  

This Primary (2) tune concurrently instilled within me a very simple, yet most profound, life lesson!

As one leader has put it: it is better to prepare and prevent than to repair and repent. (3)


 "It is better to prepare and prevent

than to repair and repent."

Ezra Taft Benson


For this reason, it makes sense for a construction company to build the strongest foundation possible for any superstructure they plan to raise. This usually means the use of steel-reinforced concrete laid atop any piles that have already been driven deep into the earth and anchored into bedrock.

This is the best way to prepare for the future and prevent damage or destruction from weather and natural disasters.

Similarly, the wisest course for the construction of your life is to build it atop a firm foundation of True Principles rooted in Universal Laws and otherwise follow the precepts and practices outlined in the SAL Theory and Model. In this metaphor, the SAL Theory and Model—resting atop the True Principles and Universal Laws upon which they are based—would represent the steel-reinforced concrete foundation slab of your life, existentially speaking.  

But what do you do if you find yourself mired in a construction (or life) mess because your foundation was built upon sand, wood, or straw... instead of bedrock, concrete, and steel?  

The answer is repentance or RECTIFICATION. 

In other words, the answer is you must go back to the beginning, tear up your old, faulty foundation, and begin anew to build it right on your next go-round before you attempt to construct a superstructure above.

Rectification is an outgrowth of reverence, and refers to repairing any and all mistakes made throughout the entire construction process, including the foundation—if the foundation was not properly laid to begin with.  

No matter how effective you might be as a self-action leader, YOU will make a variety of mistakes and commit some sins throughout your life and career. Even the most refined, polished, and experienced professionals still fall short from time-to-time.

Truly, to err is human!

Some mistakes and sins are minor and cosmetic.

Others are much more serious and structural in nature. 

For the sake of appearance and safety, credible builders with integrity make sure to take whatever time and effort is necessary to fix whatever mistakes they make throughout the construction process. 

Similarly, when self-action leaders err in judgment or otherwise falter (and we all do) they don't ignore their errors and sins and merely press on; they stop, figure out what is wrong, and then go to work to remedy the problem before going on. In the eloquent prose of C.S. Lewis: 

"We all want progress. But progress means getting nearer to the place where you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turn... then to go forward does not get you any nearer. If you are on the wrong road, progress means doing an about-turn and walking back to the right road; and in that case the man who turns back soonest is the most progressive man. We have all seen this when doing arithmetic. When I have started a sum the wrong way, the sooner I admit this and go back and start again, the faster I shall get on. There is nothing progressive about being pig headed and refusing to admit a mistake. ... Going back in the quickest way on." (3) 

In 2013, while living in the Houston, Texas area, my wife and I bought our first home—a new house the construction of which we oversaw from scratch. During the construction process, we hired an independent inspector to look for building errors the contractor may have made. 

In the course of the inspection, several mistakes were indeed found. Because we had this inspection done, we were able to report outstanding issues and ensure they were remedied before our home was completed. 

Likewise, YOU—as a self-action leadermust continually be on the watch for issues that arise in the exercise of your SAL, relationships, career, and life. 

Fortunately, the errors made in the building of our home were minor and easily fixed. Such is the case sometimes in life. 

Other times, however, accidents, mistakes, and sins are more severe and create serious issues—ranging from extremely inconvenient to profoundly catastrophic. In light of this reality, consider the following historical example of a more serious situation that cost a great deal of time, effort, and money to repair.  


The Salt Lake City Temple Foundation

One of the most frequently visited sights in the Western Hemisphere, and more specifically in the United States, is the temple belonging to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in Salt Lake City, Utah. 

The Salt Lake Temple was completed in 1892. Since that time, hundreds of millions of people have visited this religious landmark over the course of its 135-year history. 

Salt Lake City Temple Nearing Completion
Early 1890s
Begun in 1852, this unique religious edifice and historical leviathan of a man-made structure—made of solid granite hewn out of neighboring mountainstook 40 years to build. There were many reasons for its protracted construction. One of the main reasons was the initial lack of railroad access to the temple site from the mountain quarries from which the granite was being extracted. 

Another prominent reason stemmed from a series of foundational cracks that were not discovered until after much of the foundation had already been laid.  

Brigham Young—the leader of the Latter-Day Saints at the time—was deeply distraught when his chief architect, Truman O. Angell, informed him of the cracks. Young's people had worked so hard and sacrificed so much to get the massive foundation laid in the first place that he could hardly bear the thought of tearing it up and starting all over again.

The Salt Lake Temple in modern times.
Doing so would seemingly waste years of time, labor, and other resources. 

But Angell had made it clear to Young that the foundation in its current form simply could not bear the weight of such a massive granite structure. The only viable solution would be to tear the entire foundation up and start all over again from ground zero. 

Young wisely chose to respect the Universal Laws of physics and construction and heeded Angell's counsel. The flawed foundation was painstakingly removed, and preparations were made for a new foundation to be laid. 

It was discovered that the original foundation had cracked due to shifting mortar and the use of softer sandstone foundation stones. To avoid these problems with the new foundation, builders used solid granite—a much harder rock—and cut each stone to precise measurements such that they could be laid without the use of mortar. This new, better approach worked perfectly, and the construction of the temple's superstructure was able to commence upon a firm and reliable foundation that would last for centuries to come. 

My wife, Lina and me, were married
in the Salt Lake Temple on August 8, 2008.
Young's decision to start all over again was doubtlessly a great disappointment and seeming setback to everyone working on—or with a vested interest in—the Salt Lake City Temple. 

Today, however, this remarkable and famous structure stands as a testament to the wisdom of those patient and persistent western pioneers who were willing to get their foundation right (the part that few people would ever see) so that hundreds of millions of people might someday gaze upon and admire the extraordinary and picturesque superstructure that would eventually rise over 200 feet above ground!

Beginning in 2020—128 years after its original completionThe Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (always aiming to prepare and prevent rather than repair and repent) began an ultra-modern renovation of the Salt Lake Temple, including its foundation. 

A key component of this recent renovation involved an incredibly intricate and difficult modernization of the original foundation to add seismic retrofitting including a base isolation system designed to enable the massive structure to withstand earthquakes up to a magnitude 7.3 on the Richter scale.  

This expensive, mammoth, and time-consuming project took over seven (7) years to complete.

The general public has been invited to an OPEN HOUSE of the newly renovated temple and will run from April to October of 2027. Soon thereafter, it will then be rededicated as a sacred religious edifice and place of worship for Church members.   


Rectification and Curing

After concrete has been poured and set, the next step is the curing process. 

Proper curing involves applying water to the concrete's surface to keep it wet for as long as possible. This seemingly counterintuitive process ensures that the concrete dries slowly, which paradoxically ensures greater hardness and strength once it has dried completely.

In conjunction with producing harder, stronger, longer-lasting concrete, proper curing can also prevent cracks or fissures that could compromise the foundation's integrity and utility over time. 

Similarly, rectifying your past mistakes serves to "cure" or strengthen your confidence, esteem, and security as a human being.  


Elements or Steps of Rectification

There are seven (7) different steps—or elements—to RECTIFICATION.

Whether or not there is a need to complete ALL or just some of these steps will depend on the situation and circumstances at play. 


SEVEN (7) Elements (or Steps) of Rectification
  1.  Recognize and acknowledge your error(s) or sin(s). 
  2.  Feel and express genuine remorse for any damage your errors may have caused.
  3.  Fix or replace whatever was damaged or destroyed (insofar as possible) as a result of your error(s) or sin(s).
  4.  Repair any relationships damaged by your error(s) or sin(s). Begin this process by apologizing to any injured or offended by your actions. 
  5.  Commit to change.
  6.  Actually change.
  7.  Pay your debt to society (if necessary) in the case of legal, civil, or other, related infractions.

In some cases, you can't restore what was taken or lost as a result of your actions. In such cases, the passage of time and the grace-filled mercies and aid of Serendipity must be relied upon to fully heal some wounds. 

However, doing the best you can to rectify your mistakes and right your wrongs will provide you with the inner peace of heart, mind, and spirit that can only come from knowing you did everything you could to make things right. 

Rectification requires time, effort, and humility—none of which are easy. 

But doing so is incredibly rewarding and entirely worth it. By fixing your mistakes to the best of your ability, you ensure that your integrity-based character is sure and strong—just like a steel-reinforced concrete slab that has been properly poured and cured. Then, free of any cracks, fissures, or other weak points, it's ready for anything time, nature, or the weather might hurl its way.  




SAL Master Challenge

EXERCISE  #19


Think of something you've done wrong, or someone you have mistreated in the past. Before the end of the day (or week), begin the process of rectifying your error by applying any necessary elements (or steps) of rectification, including a personal apology. In addition express to any injured or offended parties your intention and commitment to avoid similar wrongdoing in the future.  


SEVEN (7) Elements (or Steps) of Rectification
  1.  Recognize and acknowledge your error(s) or sin(s). 
  2.  Feel and express genuine remorse for any damage your errors may have caused.
  3.  Fix or replace whatever was damaged or destroyed (insofar as possible) as a result of your error(s) or sin(s).
  4.  Repair any relationships damaged by your error(s) or sin(s). Begin this process by apologizing to any injured or offended by your actions. 
  5.  Commit to change.
  6.  Actually change.
  7.  Pay your debt to society (if necessary) in the case of legal, civil, or other, related infractions.



I have completed the SAL Master Challenge EXERCISE #19


Your initials:__________         AP initials:__________



Dr. JJ

Wednesday, May 14, 2025
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 20 Notes

1.  The Wise Man and the Foolish Man. Words and Music: Southern Folk Song.

2.  The "Primary" is the name of the Children's Organization I was a part of from age 18-months to 12 years as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

3.  Benson, E.T. (1988). The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson. Deseret Book Company: Salt Lake City, UT. p. 285. 

4.  Lewis, C.S. (2001). Mere Christianity. HarperCollins: New York, NY. p. 28-29. 

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Developing an Integrity-Based Character

              

 Chapter 16


Developing an Integrity-Based Character



CONSTRUCTION  STAGE  2:  BUILDING the FOUNDATION

SAL MODEL STAGE 2:  DEVELOPING an INTEGRITY-BASED CHARACTER


"Integrity is the essence of everything successful."

R. Buckminster Fuller


Having completed the pre-construction phase, it's now time to start building the foundation of your life as a self-action leader. Stage Two (2) of the Construction Process involves FIVE (5) different steps.


CONSTRUCTION  STAGE  2:  BUILDING the FOUNDATION

  • Conducting geological surveys
  • Drilling down to bedrock
  • Anchoring concrete/steel piles to bedrock
  • Pouring a steel-reinforced concrete slab
  • Earthquake and weather proofing

The construction of a skyscraper's foundation takes place underground where it will typically remain unseen after the project has been completed. 

Your CHARACTER is similarly forged in subterranean territory (out of sight) in moments and locales not witnessed by many (if any) others. 

After a skyscraper's superstructure has been built, the strength or weakness of the building is not visibly evident. But just because it is unseen doesn't mean it doesn't matter. Quite to the contrary, if the foundation is weak, cracked, or otherwise compromised, the integrity of the entire structure will be undermined. 

Likewise, if your character is fickle, fissured, shallow, or weak, you will experience existential atrophy instead of growth—no matter how attractive your life's cosmetic facade may appear to others. 

The structural integrity of a skyscraper's foundation is critical to the long-term endurance and utility of its superstructure. If a building's foundation is properly constructed, it will pass the tests of time, extreme weather, and even natural disasters. 

The strength of any kind of superstructure (house, barn, building, skyscraper, tower, etc.) begins with the strength of its foundation. To ensure construction integrity, geological surveys and other engineering surveys and safeguards must be sound and thorough. Foundation piles must reach down to bedrock and be anchored therein. Concrete must be properly mixed, reinforced with steel, set, and cured. 

All of these steps have existential equivalents and analogues in the SAL Model.

My Uncle Hyrum often equated character with "Will Power" (1) and defined INTEGRITY as: "the ability to carry out a worthy decision after the emotion of making that decision has passed." (2)  


"INTEGRITY is the ability to carry out a worthy decision 

after the emotion of making that decision has passed."

Hyrum W. Smith


The integrity-based CHARACTER that Freedom Focused promotes in the SAL Model is similarly action-oriented and will-powered.

Developing personal INTEGRITY is not easy. It requires that you demonstrate commitment, consistency, dependability, discipline, focus, persistence, and trustworthiness over long periods of time. 

M. Scott Peck, M.D. once captured the challenging, yet essential, nature of integrity when he wrote: "Integrity is painful. But without it, there can be no wholeness." (3)

Stage Two (2) of the SAL Model involves Developing an Integrity-Based Character. Specifically, the SAL Model contains FIVE (5) corresponding step-habits analogous to this foundational construction stage. 

SAL  MODEL  STAGE 2:  DEVELOPING an INTEGRITY-BASED CHARACTER
  • Honesty
  • Humility
  • Reverence
  • Rectification
  • Service



In Your Journal

  • What does INTEGRITY mean to you?
  • In what ways are you currently demonstrating INTEGRITY in your life and/or career?
  • In what areas of your life could you develop stronger CHARACTER and more reliable INTEGRITY?


 

Dr. JJ

Wednesday, April 16, 2025
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Chapter 16 Notes

1.  Smith, H. W. (1994). The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management: Proven Strategies for Increased Productivity and Inner Peace. New York, NY: Warner Books. Page 123.

2.  Ibid. Page 127.

3.  Peck, M. S. (1993). Further Along the Road Less Traveled: The Unending Journey Toward Spiritual Growth (The Edited Lectures). New York, NY: Simon & Schuster. Page 181.

Wednesday, June 30, 2021

The Power of a Sincere Apology

Sincere, authentic apologies are almost as uncommon
as forced, socially-influenced apologies are common.
The other day, I read an interesting article online about something that you almost never read about... someone extending a sincere APOLOGY for one's own negative actions in conjunction with an authentic acknowledgement of the damage those actions had caused others.  

Now I know what you are probably thinking right now. "Are you kidding, JJ?" People apologize every day for all sorts of things because politically correct supervisors and social media mobs threaten to cancel them if they don't cave to their demands.

Good point; I see what you mean.   

But that's not the kind of apology I'm talking about. I'm not referring to socially-driven, politically correct, forced apologies. I'm talking about apologies that authentically come from within and are motivated by genuine guilt engendered in the mind, heart, and soul of an offending party. THAT is the kind of apology that you almost never hear anything about in the news, and mainly because it is so rare!  

The offending party in this case was a woman who had trolled a number of high profile persons online. She had tweeted terrible things about them that had deeply hurt many people. At some point along the line, and in concert with being called out by some of those who had been the most saliently abused by her words, this woman had a "Come to Jesus" moment whereby she, like the Prodigal Son in the Good Book "Came to Herself" and realized with great clarity what a complete and cruel jerk she had been to so many over the course of several years' time.

Now... maybe this woman's apology is sincere and authentic; and maybe it is just effectively articulated in an effort to restore her own reputation and rebuild her own social status. I recognize this reality. Nevertheless, for the sake of this article, we are willing to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume the purest of motives on her part.    

For about two weeks, this avid social media troll was uncharacteristically silent online. Then, she tweeted out one of the most sincere, heartfelt, and honest apologies I have ever heard or read. In doing so, she did not attempt in any way to rationalize or justify the minutest iota of her behavior. She did attempt to explain it, but in doing so, she exposed and then self-excoriated her own immaturities and insecurities in the process. In short, she simply told the truth: she had been an absolute monster to others, and she deeply regretted her actions. She followed her apology up with a sincere commitment to only publish positive messages about others in the future. That commitment was important because true restitution for wrongdoing requires a cessation of the sin. 

I do not personally know this person, and although she is obviously well-known enough to have been highlighted by a major news outlet, I had never heard of her before reading this apology of hers. Her actions, of course, will speak louder than her words moving forward. Nevertheless, I was sincerely touched by the authenticity, sincerity, and penitent nature of her apology. It seemed about as legit as you can get using words alone. As a result, I found my heart softening somewhat toward her—despite the mountain of mean-spirited things she had clearly done in the past. In my mind I found myself saying to myself: "Good for her! Everyone deserves another chance, especially if they are willing to humbly (and metaphorically) immerse themselves in sackcloth and ashes in a good-faith commitment to changing their behavior in the future." 

"None of us are perfect."

          "I know I am not!"

In fact, I have even offered up my share of apologies for my own flawed behavior in the past. I even used to have a bad habit of apologizing too much, an outgrowth of my OCD-influenced religious scrupulosity. Any thought, speech, or action can become imbalanced if we are not careful, informed, experienced, and wise. The problem with apologizing too much is that an apology—like gold or diamonds—begins to lose its value if it becomes overabundant. In other words, apologizing can start to appear inauthentic, insincere, or even self-serving (as in my own case with OCD) if you are always apologizing. 

Nevertheless, there are unquestionably times in life when all of us owe a sincere and authentic apology to an individual or group that we have hurt or let down. For me, the most common place I apologize is in my own home. As much as I value my wife and children, and as important as I believe the role of husband and father are, I am human just like everybody else. That means that sometimes I get frustrated, lose my cool, and then say or do things that are unkind. When that happens, I've found that the second best thing I can possibly do to remedy the situation is to acknowledge my own shortcoming and sincerely apologize. And the best thing I can do is, of course, to actually do better in the future. Actions always speak louder than words. Nevertheless, words are a form of action, and an authentic apology is therefore often a good place to start. 

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A key component of Stage 2 of the SAL Model involves rectification. According to the SAL Textbook, Volume 2:

"Rectification involves recognizing and admitting when and where you erred, feeling and expressing genuine remorse for the damage your errors may have caused, doing your best to repair any damaged relationships (including apologizing to anyone who may have been hurt by your behavior), fixing or replacing anything that was damaged or lost (insofar as possible), committing to change—and then actually changing. In the case of legal infractions, you will also need to pay your debt to society according to the just demands of the law" (p. 122). 

Since none of us are perfect, we all have need to rectify our thoughts, speech, or actions when they are out of tune with Natural Law or otherwise harm other people or things. Sincerely apologizing to those we have hurt is a key component thereof.  


Is there anyone you have disrespected, mistreated, or hurt recently. If you are a human being like me, it probably won't take much effort to identify such a person, and chances are good you won't have to go outside your own inner family and/or work circle to identify a golden opportunity to apologize to them. I challenge you to do so. I promise you that doing so will, in almost every case imaginable, actually improve your relationship with that person. 

Sometimes we avoid apologizing because we fear it will make us look weak. In reality, it takes enormous inner strength, security, and confidence to sincerely apologize—and the other person knows it. As such, other people will almost universally respect and trust you more after you apologize than they did before your offense against them, especially if your offense was minor and your actions demonstrate a good-faith effort to do better in the future.  

What do you have to lose?  

          Try it today!

And then keep practicing it as needed for the rest of your life. Your life will be infinitely better if you will incorporate this one habit in your relationships with others.      


-Dr. JJ

June 30, 2021
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA

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