Wednesday, January 29, 2025

Self-EDUCATION

 

 Chapter 4


Self-EDUCATION




Construction Stage 1.1:  Gathering Information

SAL Model Stage 1.1:  Self-Education


Ultramodern construction wonders, such as those seen in
Dubai, UAE, require enormous pre-construction efforts
before they become real and tangible structures.
When a construction company sets out to build a skyscraper—or any other physical structure—a great deal of planning and preparation must precede any tangible work. This planning and preparation is part of the PRE-CONSTRUCTION stage, all of which is done behind the scenes in architectural offices and engineering meetings.

There are SEVEN (7) different steps in the PRE-CONSTRUCTION stage.

PRE-CONSTRUCTION Stage

  • Gathering information
  • Consultations
  • Acquiring and allotting financial resources
  • Obtaining approvals and permits
  • Planning and scheduling
  • Assembling a cohesive team and crew
  • Drafting blueprints

The SAL Model contains SEVEN (7) corresponding step-habits analogous to this PRE-CONSTRUCTION stage. We call this the PLANNING and PREPARATION Stage. 

PLANNING and PREPARATION Stage
  • Self-education
  • Building relationships
  • Self-awareness
  • Self-organization
  • Self-recording
  • Self-oneness
  • Drafting a Self-Constitution

Most people who eventually view a completed skyscraper don't see the time and effort invested in the PRE-CONSTRUCTION stages. Similarly, your visible self-improvements and/or public professional advancements and victories as a self-action leader are usually preceded by a lot of personal planning and preparation, almost all of which is done in private and without any fanfare, attention, or applause.

Just as a construction company must obtain and gather necessary information, knowledge, experience, and skills to properly build a skyscraper, EDUCATION is a key component for effective life construction.

The planning and preparation phase of Self-Action Leadership begins with SELF-EDUCATION. In the words of Habeeb Akande, Formal education makes you a living; self-education makes you a legend.


"Formal education makes you a living;
self-education makes you a legend."

Habeeb Akande
 

For many self-action leaders, much of their education may come formally—by way of institutionalized teachers and coaches. Formal education can be very valuable. But it is not the only kind of education—and for self-action leaders, it is ultimately secondary to the primary knowledge you will proactively seek out on your own.  

This primary process of education is called Self-Education, and YOU are primarily responsible for its attainment. 

Self-action leaders don't wait for the "right" teacher to come and teach them at the right "time." They take initiative to seek out knowledge, experience, and wisdom of their own accord. Moreover, like a young Abraham Lincoln walking 20 miles to borrow a new book, self-action leaders will sometimes go to great lengths to seek out and acquire information they need to grow and progress in their life and/or career.

The acquisition of self-knowledge begins with a burning desire to obtain it. 

In the Good Book, Jesus says that: Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled



"Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled."

Jesus Christ


Socrates
470-399 B.C.
This principle of DESIRE works for knowledge, experience, and wisdom as well; those who authentically, genuinely, and deeply want it are more likely to eventually find their fill (and sometimes more) of it. And the stronger your desire, the more fruitful your quest and search will be. 

One famous (albeit possibly apocryphal) story on the subject of self-knowledge involves the famous Greek philosopher, Socrates. As the story goes, a man approached Socrates after seeking him out for knowledge. Socrates took the man down into the ocean and proceeded to shove him underwater. After several moments of perplexing struggle, the man was able to wriggle free of Socrates' grasp, resurface, and catch his breath. Gasping for air and spitting water, the man turned to Socrates and angrily demanded to know why he had apparently attempted to drown him; to which Socrates replied: "When you desire knowledge as badly as you just wanted air, come and see me again and I will show you the pathway to wisdom." 

Abraham Lincoln
1809-1865
Abraham Lincoln—16th President of the United States—is one of world history's greatest examples of self-education. "Honest Abe" was born and raised in humble, poor, and unsophisticated circumstances in the dense, rural backwoods of Kentucky and Indiana in the early nineteenth century. Lincoln was not blessed with many chances to obtain a formal education, yet he craved knowledge like he craved air—so he created his own opportunities for learning by continually demonstrating a willingness to sacrifice time and energy to attain knowledge. As previously mentioned, he would go to great lengths (literally) to access a new book he had not yet read. 

Young Abraham devoured all the educational resources he could possibly access. This homespun lawyer-turned-politician eventually educated himself right up into the White House—a place that typically houses Ivy-Leaguers who were born with a "silver spoon in their mouths" and ready access to a quality formal education. 

Forty-five (45) men have served as President of the United States since George Washington first took the first Oath of Office in 1789. (1) Of those 45 men, most of them were born into prominent and affluent families who could afford personal tutors and would send their sons to be educated at the nation's most prestigious universities. 

Frederick Douglass
1818-1895
In light of this reality, isn't it fascinating that the man who is almost universally lauded as the greatest and nobles and smartest of them all was Abraham Lincoln
—a self-taught, self-made man who never went to high school, much less college, yet whose extraordinary character and capacity as a self-educated self-action leader and skilled communicator more than compensated for whatever formal education, training, refinement, and polish he may have lacked.

Two other prominent examples of self-education from American history include Sequoyah, a Native American responsible for creating a written alphabet for his people, and Frederick Douglass, who was a leading voice in the American abolitionist movement. 

Freedom Focused strongly encourages YOU to study the lives of these three remarkable men. The following books are a good place to start: 

  • Lincoln the Unknown by Dale Carnegie
  • Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave by Frederick Douglass
  • Sequoyah by Grant Foreman

Self-action leaders spend a significant portion of their discretionary time in pursuit of SELF-EDUCATION. They read, study, ponder, reflect, ask questions, experiment, carefully observe their surroundings—including other peopleand seek out information in whatever other ways they can. 

In my case, there's no way to calculate the residual benefits and overall value of self-education in my own life and career. Suffice it to say, it has been absolutely indispensable to my success and has shaped everything good that has come into my life and/or career. 

While I have been blessed with a much broader formal education than Abraham Lincoln, I am certainly no Ivy-Leaguer. Indeed, you will not find any top-tier institutions on my academic transcripts. Nor will you find anything extraordinary or remarkable about my elementary or secondary schooling. And never once did I ever benefit from a paid, professional tutor.  

Despite the relative obscurity and average nature of the schools I attended, I was able to compensate mightily for any knowledge and experience I might have missed out on by making the most of whatever opportunities I did haveand then supplementing my formal education with a broad and ambitious buffet of continual and never-ending personal study, experimentation, and tireless personal drive, effort, and energy. 

Because YOU are ultimately responsible for the quality of your own education, where you learn, or from whom, should always be secondary to what, why, and how well you learn. Whether your opportunities include attending elite private schools and prestigious universities, an obscure state or community college, or simply visiting your local library or logging on to the Internet, you can still take responsibility for your own learning. 

If Abe Lincoln didn't make any excuses about having to walk 20 miles to get a single new book to read, no one in the twenty-first century who has access to a public library and/or the Internet should be making any excuses about why they can't self-educate, either.

In other words, no matter how hard it may seem for you to acquire knowledge in your present circumstances, chances are you still have far more (and better) access to information than Abraham Lincoln, Frederick Douglass, or Sequoyah ever had—or ever dreamed of having, for that matter!

Don't let these magnificent self-educational opportunities go to waste.

Take full advantage of them and get studying today!

And take advantage of any opportunities at obtaining a formal education as well. Doing so will multiply your options and opportunities in life.  


Learning to Learn

A quality education goes way beyond just memorizing facts and storing them away for future retrieval. As such, t
here are several components of self-education that all self-action leaders would be wise to focus on. These components include understanding how YOU learn best (e.g. visual, auditory, kinesthetic), knowing where to go for needed information, how to efficiently access it, and the proper calibration of your attitude, perception, and work ethic throughout the process.  

You can discover how you learn best through self-observation of your past learning successes (and failures). Online resources also provide ready insights into what YOUR learning style is. A simple Google search, posing the question: "What is my learning style?" will yield a cornucopia of hits that will provide detailed information as well as online tests to gauge your personal style (e.g. visual, auditory, kinesthetic).

The best way to better understand where to go to access information that is desired and/or needed is to simply ASK QUESTIONS of people you know or come across who have more knowledge than you do. If no human beings are available at any given moment, the Internet is a fantastic machine to which you can turn to and pose questions relevant to your informational search. The advent of artificial intelligence (AI) has further enhanced the capacity of the Internet to answer a whole host of different questions in a manner that can be impressively accurate and precise.    

The proper calibration of your attitude, perception, and work ethic along your self-educational journey will ultimately be YOUR JOB. If you find you are having trouble in any of these areas, you may find benefits from searching out and studying resources in the self-help field. Better yet, just keep reading and studying the comprehensive Life Leadership textbook you currently hold in your hands! After all, it was designed, organized, and written to assist you in this ongoing calibration!


Repetition and Rote-Learning

When I was a boy, someone taught me the great truism that: Repetition is the key to reception


"Repetition is the key to reception."

Anonymous


If you want to commit anything to your long-term memory, you must usually employ a measure of rote learning. Like it or not, there's simply a lot of material you must memorize to become a highly skilled and culturally literate critical thinker. 

For example, you may need to look up certain words in the dictionary several times before you truly OWN those words as part of your fluent vocabulary. 

Similarly, an electronic calculator can never replace the efficiency value of knowing your addition, subtraction, multiplication and division tables and other elementary arithmetic skills (e.g. fractions, decimals, estimation, etc.).

The purposeful memorization of important facts, quotes, poems, riddles, stories, jokes, puns, et cetera enriches your heart, mind, soul, and cultural literacy. It also empowers you personally, professionally, and socially in countless ways. Lastly, it strengthens your memory muscles and bolsters your credibility.

And this is just the beginning of the endless benefits of memorization. 

There are many others!

For example, memorized knowledge is extremely valuable in emergency or other stressful situations, such as knowing how to administer CPR (cardio pulmonary resuscitation), perform the Heimlich maneuver, and recognize signs of shock, stroke, and other medical emergencies. Memorizing frequently used information is also more efficient than continually looking it up. 

Memorization is also good for neural plasticity, increases your brain's ability to remember details, and delays the onset of age-related cognitive decline.  

Memorization takes time and effort; but it is usually worth it—and sometimes many times over.  

At Freedom Focused, we are big believers that some books are worth reading more than once. There is one book in particular that I have read cover-to-cover 24 times in my life, and I'm a smarter, wiser, and better person for having done so. Every time I've read and studied it, I've derived new insights and wisdom from its pages that I hadn't discovered or discerned during previous readings.  

Simply stated, repetition and rote learning are vital components of a quality education. Engaging these practices requires discipline, dedication, and hard work; it is one of the things that separates top tier learners and performers from average ones.  


Ongoing Self-Education and Other Training

On Christmas Eve, 2003, I received one of the most memorable phone calls of my life. 

It was Dr. Stephen R. Covey.

Earlier that year, I had sent him a letter thanking him for his life's work and telling him about its tremendous influence on my life. I also requested the opportunity to meet him personally.

My motivation for writing the letter stemmed from some good advice I received from Kieth Merrill, a successful filmmaker. I had approached Merrill after a speech he delivered at Utah Valley University, where I was attending college at the time. I was impressed to ask Merrill for advice about how to be successful. As he looked piercingly into my eyes, he told me to: "seek out a person who was already where I wanted to someday be and learn from them."

Stephen Covey was where I wanted to someday be.  

So I sought him out in an effort to "pick his brain" and learn from him.  

Despite his very busy schedule and international travel itinerary, Dr. Covey—to his credit—kindly carved out a few minutes of his holiday to respond to my epistolary request. On that phone call, which lasted for about 10 minutes, Dr. Covey encouraged me to read for at least two hours every day. He also urged me to read deeply and widely, including outside of my own interests.

While I can't claim to have read for two hours every day of my life, I have read a lot. Doing so is one of the things that has gotten me to where I am today, plain and simple. Indeed, I'm a rich man because of the treasures I have mined from literature, refined in my intellect and conversation, incorporated and synthesized in my writing, and then permanently stored in my mind and heart for later retrieval. Reading will always play a vital role in my ongoing self-education and personal training and development as a self-action leader.  

Ongoing self-education includes education of all kinds that occurs beyond the formal classroom. Examples of this kind of education include: personal reading, studying, pondering, reflecting, online courses and workshops, mentorships, research, educational multimedia, observation, asking questions, traveling, trying new things, and doing a wide array of other, positive and productive "stuff" in general.  

Ralph Waldo Emerson
1803-1882
Wise, principle-centered experimentation and calculated risk-taking in the interplay of our lives and careers are also excellent sources of self-education. As Emerson once suggested: Don't be too squeamish about your actions; all life is an experiment.  


"Don't be too squeamish about your actions;
all life is an experiment."

Ralph Waldo Emerson


Don't misinterpret Emerson's words as an excuse to be stupid or engage in unwise or dangerous behavior. But do allow it to inspire you to take calculated risks for your own education, growth, and maturation.  

Embracing such risks are a big part of what has gotten me to where I am in my life today.  

Self-education is a habit to cultivate throughout your life. Based on my own experience, I highly recommend Dr. Covey's advice to be an avid and voracious reader. If you can't squeeze in an average of two hours of reading per day, commit to one. If that is too hard at first, begin with a half hour. In the wonderful Age of Information in which we all live, so much information is available through the miracle of public libraries and the Internet.

Don't let these precious resources go unused!

Muhammad
570-632
One practical and highly doable way to make this commitment to self-education is to cut in half the time you currently spend on social media, watching television and YouTube, online shopping, or randomly surfing the web. You can then devote the surplus time to substantive reading, study, and taking advantage of other meaningful educational opportunities.  


"Seek education from the cradle to the grave."

Muhammad


To help you begin—or further inspire and motivate the continuance of—your own journey of self-education, we invite you to complete the next SAL Master Challenge homework exercise.  



SAL Master Challenge

Exercise 7



Self-action leaders proactively Self-Educate


Read FIVE (5) Books from the list of Titles in Appendix A.          1___  2___  3___  4___  5___

Book Titles:

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Memorize FIVE (5) SAL Mantras from Appendix B.         1___  2___  3___  4___  5___


Mantras:

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5.  


Memorize FIVE (5) Quotes from Appendix B.          1___  2___  3___  4___  5___


Quotes:

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Memorize FIVE (5) Poems from Appendix B.          1___  2___  3___  4___  5___


Poem Title and Author:

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Initials of Accountability Partner or other Recitation Witness:__________




I Have Completed SAL Master Challenge Exercise #7:__________






In Your Journal

  • To what extent have you valued and utilized self-education in the past?
  • Has this Life Leadership textbook changed the value you will place upon self-education in the future? Why or why not?
  • What are three specific ways you could practically and reasonably invest more time in your self-education?
 

Dr. JJ

Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 4 Notes

1.  While there have been 47 Presidents of the United States, only 45 men have held the office of President. This is because Grover Cleveland (22nd [1885-1889] and 24th [1893-1897) and Donald Trump (45th [2017-2021] and 47th [2025-2029) both served as President twice, in non-consecutive terms.

Wednesday, January 22, 2025

A Construction Metaphor

 

 Chapter 3


A Construction Metaphor



A young JJ in the back of Dad's truck next to his chainsaw
getting wood up the mountain near our home in Monticello, Utah
.

All of my life, I have been fascinated by construction of all kinds. My dad was, among other things, a general contractor by profession. From ages three to seven, during the time I lived in southeastern Utah, I eagerly accompanied Dad everywhere I could. I was especially excited to tag along if he was heading somewhere that involved heavy machinery, power tools, lumber, concrete, bricks and mortar, or the hardware store. At age seven, my career plan was to someday be a builder—just like Dad.

While I did not end up pursuing a career in construction, architecture, or engineering, my interest in certain principles and processes pursuant to these subjects is alive and well to this day.  

Nature's wonders, including the famous
Delicate Arch in Utah, were the closest
things to a skyscraper that I grew up near.
Something else I've always been enamored with is city skylines and the skyscrapers that form them. 

Growing up in a tiny rural community in the middle of the sparsely inhabited, mountainous deserts of the Four Corners area of the United States, skyscrapers were nowhere to be found—unless you consider mammoth rock formations (e.g. Shiprock, Agathla Peak, Delicate Arch, Natural Bridges, etc.) to be skyscrapers. Perhaps this geographic isolation from urban areas further fueled my fervor to eventually visit what were, for me, elusive cityscapes—an ambition I vigorously pursued as a young adult adult.  

Over the years, I've had the extraordinary opportunity to visit nearly every metropolitan area in the United States, Canada, and Great Britain. From the magnificent dome of St. Paul's Cathedral in London to the cavernous city centers of Lower and Midtown Manhattan; from the unique urban sprawls of Chicago and Toronto to the endless beach condominium towers of Dade, Broward, and Palm Beach Counties in Florida; and from the spectacular southern skylines of Atlanta, Dallas, Houston, and Miami, to the wondrous West Coast cityscapes of Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle, and Vancouver, I have been continually entranced with and thrilled by such sights.  

With my kids in Dubai, UAE.
January 2025
Recently, my family and I traveled to the Middle East where we had the chance to visit Dubai and Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates, and Doha, Qatar. Touring these ultra-modern cities—including the tallest building in the world at the time (Burj Khalifa)—was icing on top of the cake of this lifelong hobby of mine—and I know that similar modern marvels exist throughout the world, and more especially in East Asia and Indonesia. 

What a marvelous time to be alive! 

This lifelong interest in construction and skyscrapers led me to design the SAL Model using high-rise construction as a metaphor. Just as there are certain physical laws, principles, and practices of architecture and engineering that apply to the sound construction of building, bridges, dams, and homes, there are likewise certain metaphysical laws, principles, and practices of Self-Action Leadership that govern Existential Growth and successful long-term living. 

The SAL Model provides YOU and me with the incredible opportunity to envision, design, engineer, and then build your own life and/or career. What could be more exciting and engaging than developing and then directing your own destiny?  


SAR and SAL Projects

The purpose of the SAL Model is to identify disciplines and establish habits that will empower your ability to conduct Self-Action Research in your life and career. 

What is Self-Action Research, or SAR? 

Simply stated, SAR is action research applied by, to, and for YOURSELF.

As you may recall from BOOK the THIRD, Chapter 2, action research (AR) refers to: A four-step cyclical process of identifying and strategically solving problems. By way of review, action research also involves "four core processes." (1)

These four processes include:

Process 1PLANNING            Deciding how to deal with a problem.

Process 2ACTING                  Implementing your plan.             

Process 3OBSERVING          Paying attention and recording what is happening.

Process 4REFLECTING       Analyzing outcomes and revising plans for another cycle of acting. (2) 


Self-Action Research, or SAR, is the application of action research to the self. It is directly related to SAL and is defined as: action research applied by, to, and for the self to gain self-awareness, aid self-improvement, and solve personal problems


ACTION  RESEARCH

Action research applied by, to, and for the self to gain self-awareness,

aid self-improvement, and solve personal problems.  


The purpose of Self-Action Research is to strategically apply SAL principles in an effort to achieve specific, targeted objectives related to your own character development and personal growth. Self-action leaders can do this by engaging in a SAR project, which is defined as: A self-led research experiment or project aimed at increasing self-awareness, aiding self-improvement, and solving personal problems


SAR Project

A self-led research experiment or project aimed at increasing self-awareness, aiding

self-improvement, solving personal problems, and bolstering Existential Growth.


Like any action research project or initiative, the goal of SAR is to learn, improve, and grow by strategically applying the four (4) core processes of AR to the self. A SAR Project is similar to a SAL Project, which is defined as: A self-led personal initiative aimed at achieving long-term objectives in the domain of Existential Growth for self and others


SAL Project

A self-led personal initiative aimed at achieving long-term objectives

in the domain of Existential Growth for self and others.  


These definitions are similar in their substance and desired ends. There are, however, important distinctions between the two. In the 2017 academic journal article introducing the SAL Model in the Journal of Leadership and Management, my colleagues and I clarified the difference between SAR and SAL Projects thusly: 

"In a sense, SAR projects are conceptually indistinct from SAL projects because in both cases, the end goal is always to do what is right in the pursuit of long-term existential growth for oneself and others. The main differentiating factor between the two involves time frames. For example, SAR projects primarily deal with micro issues and goals that can often be addressed and completed (or solved) in relatively short periods of time (e.g., days, weeks, and months). SAL projects, on the other hand, deal primarily with macro issues that usually take much longer periods of time to address and complete, or solve (e.g., years, decades, or more). As such, SAR projects are more akin to short- and mid-term goals, while SAL projects focus on longer-term goals in support of one's personal and professional statements of vision and mission. SAR projects, therefore, serve as smaller, piecemeal initiatives within a context of much larger SAL endeavors. (3)

Another way of conceptualizing these terms is to view YOUR LIFE as one grand SAL Project that can then be filled with a variety of SAR Projects that facilitate your ongoing quest for Existential Growth (4). Or, you might view life as being filled with a few (or several) overarching and extremely important SAL Projects, each one of which is then broken down into a variety of smaller SAR Projects that collectively serve as the engine driving your long-term progress upwards into the higher levels of the SAL Hierarchy. 

The SAL Model incorporates the four (4) core processes of action research into four (4) analogous stages of SAL-oriented action. These stages—and their 23 sub-stages (or step-habits)—of SAL are likened to the stages of building a skyscraper. They form a practicum aimed at helping you develop the character and habits that lead to Existential Growth. Thus, the SAL Model is defined as: A comprehensive academic model of Self-Action Leadership and character development rooted in action research theory and construction science and metaphor. 


SAL  Model

A comprehensive academic model of Self-Action Leadership and character development

rooted in action research theory and construction science and metaphor.  


Self-Action Leadership MODEL

FOUR (4) Stages and TWENTY-THREE (23) Sub-Stages (or Step Habits) of

Construction and Self-Action Leadership


Construction Process


STAGE 1: Pre-Construction

    Step 1:  Gathering Information

    Step 2:  Consultation

    Step 3:  Acquiring and allotting financial resources

    Step 4:  Obtaining approvals and permits

    Step 5:  Planning and scheduling

    Step 6:  Assembling a cohesive team and crew

    Step 7:  Drafting blueprints

STAGE 2: Building the Foundation

    Step 1:  Conducting geological surveys

    Step 2:  Drilling down to bedrock

    Step 3:  Anchoring concrete/steel piles to bedrock

    Step 4:  Pouring a steel-reinforced concrete slab

    Step 5:  Earthquake proofing

STAGE 3: Building the Superstructure

    Step 1:  Punctually showing up to the work site

    Step 2:  Concrete, steel, wood, glass, brick, mortar, and drywall

    Step 3:  Plumbing, wiring, and insulation

    Step 4:  Carpeting, painting, and interior

    Step 5:  Landscaping

STAGE 4: Maintenance and Upgrades

    Step 1:  Security

    Step 2:  Structural reviews, safety checks, and quality controls

    Step 3:  Maintenance

    Step 4:  Blueprints review

    Step 5:  Inventory and change recommendations

    Step 6:  Replacements, renovations, and upgrades






Construction Process




Self-Action Leadership Process


STAGE 1: Planning & Preparation

    Step-habit 1:  Self-education

    Step-habit 2:  Build relationships

    Step-habit 3:  Self-awareness

    Step-habit 4:  Self-organization

    Step-habit 5:  Self-recording

    Step-habit 6:  Self-oneness

    Step-habit 7:  Self-constitution

STAGE 2: Developing an Integrity-Based Character

    Step-habit 1:  Honesty

    Step-habit 2:  Humility

    Step-habit 3:  Reverence

    Step-habit 4:  Rectification

    Step-habit 5:  Service

STAGE 3: Taking Action

    Step-habit 1:  Self-discipline

    Step-habit 2:  Self-action in public

    Step-habit 3:  Self-action in private

    Step-habit 4:  World altering strategies*

    Step-habit 5:  Self- and natural rewards*

STAGE 4: Observation, Analysis, and Change

    Step-habit 1:  Self-observation*

    Step-habit 2:  Self-analysis

    Step-habit 3:  Self-renewal

    Step-habit 4:  Purpose examination*

    Step-habit 5:  External feedback

    Step-habit 6:  Self-alterations

*See Footnote 5




Self-Action Leadership Model



The remainder of BOOK the FIFTH will explain in detail what each of these four (4) stages and 23 step-habits entail.  

If you are ready to dive in and begin studying the nitty gritty of the SAL Model...

    Then keep reading!  





In Your Journal

  • What personal or professional challenges are you presently facing that might make a good Self-Action Research (SAR) Project within a larger Self-Action Leadership (SAL) initiative or objective?  
  • What do you want your own skyscraper (LIFE) to look like two, five, ten, twenty, or fifty years from now?  

 

Dr. JJ

Wednesday, January 22, 2025
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 3 Notes

1.  Kuhne, G. W., & Quigley, B. A. (1997). Understanding and Using Action Research in Practice Settings. In A. B. Quigley & G. W. Kuhne (Eds.), Creating Practical Knowledge Through Action Research: Posing problems, Solving Problems, and Improving Daily Practice (Vol. 73, pp. 23-40). San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass. Page 25.

2.  Ibid.

3.  Jensen, Beaulieu, and Neck (2018). “The Self-Action Leadership Model: A Qualitative, Nomological Expansion of Self-Leadership Theory Rooted in Action Research.” Journal of Leadership and Management. 11(2018). Pgs. 10-30. ISSN: 2391-6087. Page 17.

4.  An outstanding example of a venerable self-action leader who dedicated his life to Self-Action Research is Mohandas Gandhi. He wrote about his many SAR projects, or his “Experiments with Truth,” in an autobiography—a book I highly recommend to all self-action leaders.

5.  Neck C.P., and Manz, C.M. (2010). Mastering Self-Leadership: Empowering Yourself for Personal Excellence (Fifth Edition). Upper Saddle River, NJ: Prentice Hall. Pages 15, 17, 19, 21, 27, 38. 

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

Seeds of Self-Help

 

 Chapter 2


Seeds of Self-Help 




This chapter tells the story of my introductions to and experiences with the self-help and personal development fields. It chronicles a journey that began when I was just a boy and would eventually lead to the development of the SAL Theory and Model and the creation of this Life Leadership textbook.  

I was 14 years old when Warner Books published my Uncle Hyrum's book, The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management, which would eventually sell over a million copies and complement the massive success Hyrum was already enjoying with the Franklin Day Planning system.

During the summer of that same year (1994), I worked as a lowly field hand on Hyrum and Gail's sprawling ranch in Gunlock, Utah, and environs. 

A ranch hand's work is physically strenuous and low-paying. I earned $4.25 per hour for my labors that summer, which was the minimum wage in 1994. Summer days in southwestern Utah were hot, dry, dusty, and long. Temperatures often exceeding 100-degrees Fahrenheit (38 degrees Celsius) and rain was rare. Our daily commute usually included a ride in the back of a white Ford pickup truck. 

One week, we were assigned to build a fence up in the mountains, many miles away from the bunkhouse where we ate and slept. Facing a long, bumpy ride to work each day that week, I decided to take along a book to read. I had brought several books from home to read and study that summer. The book I chose on this particular occasion was: The Magic of Thinking Big, by David J. Schwartz.

Once I started reading, it was hard to stop, and not just because I enjoyed reading more than digging post holes in the rocky desert soil; but because the seeds of hope, possibility, and vision that the book planted in my mind and heart. I enjoyed that book so much that I would sometimes read at lunchtime and after work was over. I kept reading until I had read, marked, and annotated the entire volume. 

As I read, studied, and pondered Schwartz's hopeful and positive message, his words sunk deep into my soul, spawning rich daydreams about my personal and professional potential. I grew increasingly motivated by the realization that I didn't have to be a ranch hand for the rest of my life. I was further inspired by the idea that I could actually design my life largely according to my own desires if I was willing to pay the price. 

When I read the words: when you believe, your mind finds ways to do, (1) I was inspired by the personal power and capacity I possessed to accomplish difficult and meaningful achievements in my life and career despite any obstacles that might stand in the way. 

This was the point in my life when a nascent conceptualization of the SAL philosophy gradually began to form in my mind and heart. 

Over the next several years—throughout my teenage and young adult life—I increasingly took advantage of opportunities to read and study books and listen to audio tapes and CDs in the self-help and personal development fields.

Hyrum W. Smith
1943-2019
The books and/or authors from whom I supped included:

  • Dale Carnegie
  • Norman Vincent Peale
  • Napoleon Hill
  • Og Mandino
  • M. Scott Peck, M.D. 
  • Hyrum W. Smith
  • Stephen R. Covey
  • Anthony Robbins
  • Brian Tracy
  • Zig Ziglar
  • Et al. 

I'll always cherish my dad's personal copy of Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. He had purchased the book in England in the mid-1960s while serving as a young missionary and it had that wonderful "old book" smell. 

When I was in eighth grade, my mom started buying Gary Smalley's relationship videos. Smalley's trainings focused on family relationships, and more particularly on marital unions. Though it would be years before I would start looking seriously at exclusive dating or marriage myself, I enjoyed watching these programs with my mom and learned a great deal about personality differences, communication skills, and successfully cultivating healthy and successful relationships.  

When I was a junior in high school, my oldest brother, Paul—a successful salesman and manager who shared my passion for personal development and self-help—sent me a videotape training by Jim Rohn, a famous business philosopher of the late twentieth and early twenty-first century.

Rohn had some GREAT stuff! 

A half-decade later, as a direct salesman myself, I was reintroduced to Rohn's work. While I ultimately found little aptitude for or interest in sales and marketing, Rohn's timeless talk on CD, entitled: Building Your Network Marketing Company, was filled with general truisms about long-term success that enormously influenced my thought processes as I set out to build Freedom Focused, develop the SAL Theory and Model, and compose iterations of this Life Leadership textbook.

To this day, I hear Rohn's voice in my head more than most others because of the concision, effectiveness, and memorableness of his personality and teaching style.    

In high school, I attended a couple of Peter Lowe-organized day-long success seminars, where I had the chance to hear an impressive collection of high-profile speakers address personal development topics related to self-improvement, health and wellness, and success.

These speakers included:

  • President Gerald Ford
  • General Colin Powell
  • Zig Ziglar
  • Karl Malone
  • Et al. 
My personal copy of The 7 Habits
Annexed from my parent's home library
Shortly after graduating from high school, I read my Uncle Hyrum's book, The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management, wherein I made a commitment to be more conscious about planning my days moving forward. 

Later on, in college, I took a course in leadership from Brigham Young University (BYU) as a visiting student and a course in organizational behavior from Utah Valley University (UVU). 

These classes reintroduced me to Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People and led me to carefully study Stephen R. Covey's bestselling book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. I voraciously consumed Covey's classic work, which planted a potent and plentiful patch of additional SAL seeds in in my mind, heart, and soul. More than any other personal leadership-oriented or self-help book I had ever read, The 7 Habits left a deep and lasting impression on me. After reading the book, I obtained the same material on CD—taught by Covey himself—and listened intently to the entire program. The more familiar I became with the material, the more convinced I became that I didn't want to just practice what Stephen Covey had taught me; I wanted to become the Stephen R. Covey of my generation. 

My personal copy of Og Mandino's
The Greatest Secret in the World
In addition to carefully studying Covey's work during my college years, I also read books by Og Mandino. In particular, I carefully studied and completed Mandino's 45-week challenge outlined in his book: The Greatest Secret in the World, which invites a reader to not just read the Success Scrolls from his classic: The Greatest Salesman in the World, but challenges him or her to apply those scrolls in a concrete, dedicated, and systematic manner over the course of nearly a full year. 

This particular self-help exercise was, by far, the most ambitious and and labor/time intensive personal development project I had ever undertaken—before or since. Og himself stated in his book that the probability of someone actually completing his ambitious challenge was about one-in-75. (2) I was absolutely determined to prove to myselfand others, including Og, even though he died nearly a decade before I undertook his challenge—that I would be one of the 1.3 percent of people who would actually finish the entire program. 

Forty-five (45) weeks after I started, I succeeded in this, my objective—an accomplishment that provides me with a residual source of personal confidence, esteem, and inner security to this day

William James
1842-1910
Suffice it to say, over an extended process of association, the nascent seeds of SAL were planted deeply in my mind, heart, and soul. Over time, as I continued to cultivate, fertilize, water, and otherwise nurture those seeds, they began to grow up in the form of the SAL Philosophy.  


"Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit;
sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny."

William James


Thus, over a long period of time, I gradually developed and refined my own thoughts and ideas about personal leadership—notions that would, in-time, develop and evolve into the SAL Theory and Model. I recorded many of these thoughts in little black-and-white, pocket-sized "Marble Memo" notebooks.

During my early-mid twenties, I filled over 20 of these books with ideas and inspiration—as it came, piecemeal, one entry at a time. My mind was exploding with ideas during this time and it was not uncommon for me to have an idea strike my brain at all times of the day, including when going to sleep at night or driving my car. At such times I was conscientious about getting out of bed, turning on the light, pulling out the little Marble Memo notebook I was filling at the time, and recording the thought—or, if I was driving, I would pull my car over to the side of the road and record the inspiration in my little notebook before proceeding on my journey.

Over a long period of time—20-plus years and counting now—I gradually developed, refined, and revised all my thoughts and ideas that would become the SAL Philosophy.

At age 25, I began constructing the SAL Theory and Model. At age 26, I self-published my first book: I Am Sovereign: The Power of Personal Leadership. It was a personal leadership guide for teenagers and contained the first version of the SAL Model, as well as early vestiges of the SAL Theory.

It was my first attempt at writing a book and contained many markings of an amateur. 

But it was a solid initial effort that would eventually go through SIX additional iterations over the course of the following two decades.

The third of these seven iterations came in the form of my doctoral research, where I further honed the SAL Model and introduced a full version of the SAL Theory for the first time. The Life Leadership textbook you now hold in your hands is four (4) iterations removed from my dissertation, published in 2013. It is the result of 40 years of informal research, 24 years of formal research, organizing, writing, editing, revising, and continually polishing. 

It is a project literally tens of thousands of hours in the making.

It is my magnum opus as a thinker, writer, organizer, and leader. 

Indeed, I do not foresee, nor do I intend, to write or create anything more important or significant in my lifetime than this single, comprehensive work. Suffice it to say, it has been an incredible adventure and an exhilarating journey—a journey that is, in many ways, still just beginning.  





In Your Journal

  • Prior to being introduced to SAL, what self-help media (books, tapes, podcasts, etc.) positively influenced your life, actions, and Existential Growth? 

  • Which of these tools did you enjoy the most?  

  • Which of these tools did you find to be the most inspiring and/or helpful?

  • Which of these tools would you most highly recommend to others?

  • Which of these tools most closely resembles the message contained in the SAL Philosophy? 


Dr. JJ

Wednesday, January 15, 2025
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 2 Notes

1.  Schwartz, D. J. (1995). The Magic of Thinking Big. London, UK: Pocket Books. Page 122.

2.  Mandino, O. (1972). The Greatest Secret in the World. New York, NY: Bantam Books. Page 2.

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