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Wednesday, June 12, 2024

TRUTH, or the Way Things Really Are

 

Chapter 4


TRUTH, or the Way Things Really Are 




In BOOK the THIRD, Chapter Three, Truth was introduced and defined as: the way things really were, are, and will be—as delineated by the continuous interplay of Universal Laws and natural consequences over time.

A shorter definition of truth is simply: Things as they really are.  

Error, on the other hand, was also defined as: anything that deviates in any way from the truth.

This chapter builds on these two definitions to further flesh out the concept of TRUTH as it relates to both the physical and metaphysical world. 

Earth, the Universe, and our lives and relationships are all subject to certain irrevocable laws of physics and metaphysics. Whether you know it or not, like it or not, and accept it or not, that is the way things really are.

Universal Laws govern the acquisition of everything of value and worth that cannot be purchased with money, such as: courage, confidence, discipline, health, good relationships, knowledge, patience, personal growth, skills, etc. 

Money can never procure blessings and virtues such as these, and yet there is a price that must be paid to obtain them. That price, which is sometimes heavy and high, must be paid in the currency of time, effort, sacrifice, self-sacrifice, service, and love.

These prices are non-negotiable.

           And Universal Laws set the price. 

Our feelings in the matter, however important and meaningful they may be to us and those we love, are irrelevant as far as the Laws are concerned. For Universal Laws are no respecters of persons and deal their cards out impartially to all. 

Universal Laws, be they physical or metaphysical in nature, govern the way things really are. They are incontrovertible, inviolable, and preeminent. They transcend human trends, fashions, inclinations, mores, cultures, opinions, popularity, decrees, edicts, and legislation. 

You can choose to respect Universal Laws or disregard them, but in the end, their consequences are immutable and omnipotent. Thus, while we are always at liberty to choose, we are never free to arbitrarily determine the long-term consequences of our choices; such is the all-powerful purview of Universal Laws.  


Physical Truths

Scientific verities are examples of Universal Laws in the PHYSICAL world. These laws include: energy, friction, gravity, mass, motion, leverage, speed, thermodynamics, torque, etc.

Gravity, for instance, is a universal physical law that governs the operations of space, time, and the movements of physical bodies in our world and throughout the Universe.  

If, for example, I am standing atop a precariously high precipice, I have the freedom to jump off the cliff if I so desire. But if I choose to disregard and disrespect gravity and jump, I put myself entirely at the mercy of the law, with all of its gruesome consequences at the bottom of the cliff.

If, on the other hand, I choose to recognize and respect gravity, there are ways and means whereby I can jump safely by utilizing safety mechanisms and tools that work in harmony with the law (e.g. parachute, airplane, hang glider, hot air balloon, etc.).  

A main reason our contemporary civilization is as scientifically advanced as it is today is that near-universal accession and agreement exist upon many important physical and scientific laws of the Universe. This was not always the case. In past centuries and millennia, great debates were waged, and in some extreme cases, martyrs were sacrificed over truths that are simply taken for granted today. 

Because of the incontrovertible evidence we have for many physical laws, most people adjust their behavior to avoid the consequences of disregarding them. This respect is rooted in the fact that the consequences stemming from physical laws are often meted out without delay, so there's little room for arguments over cause-and-effect relationships that exist between laws and their concomitant consequences. 

As a result, a social consensus exists with regards to these laws.


Metaphysical Truths

The problem with postmodern-esque philosophies is that this same consensus does not exist for metaphysical truths. In fact, to a postmodernist, there really are no metaphysical truths; there are only physical laws and metaphysical beliefs, conjectures, interpretations, and suppositions.

This rejection of metaphysical laws (intentional or not) often leads to consequences that hurt more and last longer than the consequences one might endure from disobedience to physical laws. The fact that negative consequences of broken metaphysical laws typically take a great deal of time longer to manifest themselves contributes to a lack of social consensus on what these truths entail.

Because it can take weeks, months, years, decades, or in some collective cases—centuries or millennia—for consequences to fully flesh themselves out, a great deal of contemporary confusion ensues about the reality and substance of universal metaphysical laws and truths. 

As a result, many people spend their relatively brief lives here on Earth cultivating false notions about truth and reality that lead to disastrous results—a natural consequence of harboring misconceptions about metaphysical truths and their accompanying morality codes. 

Unlike natural occurrences in the physical world, which are governed by physical laws and create immediate (or imminent) consequences readily recognized, many human thoughts, speech, and actions are governed by metaphysical law and therefore have delayed consequences. As a result, many human beings are either ignorant of universal metaphysical laws, arrogantly choose to dismiss or flout them, or naively attempt to evade or manipulate them. 

While such dismissal, evasion, and manipulation tactics may appear or seem to work in the short-run, Universal Laws always prevail in the long-run. Thus, efforts to avoid said consequences are ultimately futile—an existential waste of time, energy, and often money and resources as well.  

Just as our physical health depends upon our reliance upon and regard for physical laws of healthy living, our mental, emotional, social, spiritual, and existential health depends upon our reliance upon and regard for metaphysical laws of mental health, emotional well-being, social adjustment, spiritual peace, and existential growth. And a key component of our mental, emotional, social, spiritual, and existential well-being is our continual commitment to TRUTH and REALITY, or the way things really are.

In the incisive prose of M. Scott Peck, M.D.: Mental health [is] a process of ongoing dedication to reality at all costs ... no matter how uncomfortable the reality makes us.  


Mental health is a process of ongoing dedication to reality at all costs,
no matter how uncomfortable the reality makes us.."

—M. Scott Peck


Understanding and accepting REALITY—the way things really are—including right and wrong and their accompanying True Principles rooted in Universal Laws, is hard work. It demands that you consistently listen to and follow your conscience, despite the inconveniences and difficulties of doing so. 

C.S. Lewis once delineated this difficulty as follows:

"No man [or woman] knows how bad he [or she] is till he has tried very hard to be good. A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is. After all, you find out the strength of [a military force] by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A [person] who gives in ... after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later. That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about badness. They have lived a sheltered life by always giving in. We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside until we try to fight it." (2) 

Sir Walter Scott
1771-1832
An unwillingness to face the difficulties involved in heeding the whisperings of conscience weakens your integrity and leads you away from the truth. Deceit always begins with self-deception. If not recognized and relinquished, self-deception invariably leads to dishonesty with others. If pursued indefinitely, your entire life will eventually be tangled up in a complex web of lies. 

In the inspired words and prosodic parlance of Sir Walter Scott: O what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive! (3)



"O what a tangled web we weave
when first we practice to deceive!"

—Sir Walter Scott


What's both ironic and sad is that if deceit is taken too far, you won't even be able to recognize your own deceptiveness because you will have lost the ability to tell the truth to yourself. Indeed, it is often the case that truly evil people don't see themselves as being bad or doing what is wrong; they ironically see themselves as good and doing what is right—and after a certain point, it is virtually impossible to convince them otherwise, which is why the worst of the worst usually end up dead from either suicide or enemy retribution. 

To rise to the highest levels of Existential Growth—soon to be introduced in the SAL Theory—YOU must value, respect, honor, and adhere to the Universal Laws of both physics and metaphysics, and the True Principles that accompany them.

There is no other way.  

Nations, states, communities, organizations, schools, families, relationships, and individual lives that are not rooted in TRUTH and GOODNESS will eventually falter and fail. Your only assurance of lasting success, happiness, fulfillment, and inner peace is to make goodness, rightness, and truth the bullseye of your life's existential target.  

Truth cannot be created or destroyed. 

        Truth and error—and by extension, good and evil—simply are. 

It is true that truths can be discovered, but they cannot be created or amended to suit our inclinations or opinions; nor can they be bossed around or bullied into submission. Truth exists outside of human authority and influence—just like the heat and light of the Sun and the orbit of our planet around it. 

Truth in all of its majestic permanence and perfection outlines and highlights the consequences of all human thought, speech, and behavior. While we possess liberty to make choices, we have no freedom over the long-term consequences of those decisions. 

The results we get in life flow from a nexus of the consequences of our choices and the consequences of others' choices that affect us. We may not like what the consequences are, but our liking them (or not) is irrelevant to their existence, power, and influence over our lives.  

Like Freedom Focused, Stephen R. Covey defined truth as "a knowledge of things as they [really] are." (4) Covey further taught that some principles are correct (or true), and some principles are incorrect (or false). When human behavior aligns with true principles, positive long-term consequences ensue. When human behavior aligns with false principles, negative long-term consequences ensue.

In Covey's own words: 

"Principles are guidelines for human conduct that are proven to have enduring, permanent value. They're fundamental [and] they're essentially unarguable because they are self-evident. ... Although people may argue about how these principles are defined or manifested or achieved, there seems to be an innate consciousness and awareness that they exist." (5)

To illustrate this "innate consciousness," consider again the words of C.S. Lewis, who referred to truth as the "Law of Nature." 

"Whenever you find a [person] who says he does not believe in a real Right and Wrong, you will find the same [person] going back on this a minute later. He may break his promise to you, but if you try breaking one to him, he will be complaining, "It's not fair," before you can say Jack Robinson. A nation may say treaties don't matter; but then, next minute they spoil their case by saying that the particular treaty they want to break was an unfair one. But if treaties do not matter, and if there is no such thing as Right and Wrong ... what is the difference between a fair treaty and an unfair one? Have they not ... shown that, whatever they say, they really know the Law of Nature just like everyone else? It seems, then, we are forced to believe in a real Right and Wrong. People may be sometimes mistaken about them, just as people sometimes get their sums wrong; but they are not a matter of mere taste and opinion any more than the multiplication table." (6)

William James—the father of modern psychology—further corroborated Lewis's assertion thusly:

"What interest, zest, or excitement can there be in achieving the right way, unless we are enabled to feel that the wrong way is also a possible way and a natural way—nay, more, a menacing and imminent way? And what sense can there be in condemning ourselves for taking the wrong way, unless we need have done nothing of the sort, unless the right way was open to us as well? I cannot understand the willingness to act, no matter how we feel, without the belief that acts are really good and bad." (7)

This quote was shared previously in this textbook, but given that repetition is the key to reception, it certainly bears repeating here!


Truth Transcends the Known Sciences

Truth and reality encompass far more than what mankind can perceive with our five senses; it also transcends the canon of science we have been able to demonstrably prove to-date. It is, after all, a well-known fact that mankind has yet to discover many scientific proofs. 

In fact, amidst the wellspring of scientific knowledge currently available, there is still a LOT more we don't know than we do know—to say nothing of our unknown unknowns, which in my lowly opinion, accounts for the greatest amount (by far) of knowledge yet to be discovered in the Universe.  

These pressing, perplexing, and puzzling realities led M. Scott Peck to query: "Why is it that we humans go around thinking that we know the score, when actually we don't know beans?" (8)

Peck's own answer to this question was: FEAR & LAZINESS—two of the greatest inhibitors of Existential Growth. 

Said he:

"It is scary to think that we really don't know what we're doing or where we're going, and that we are intellectual infants stumbling around in the dark. It's so much more comfortable, therefore, to live in an illusion that we know much more than we actually do. ... Were we to wake to the reality of our terrible ignorance, we would either have to think of ourselves as being profoundly stupid or, at the very least, let ourselves in for a lifetime of effortful learning. Since most people don't like to think of themselves as stupid or let themselves in for a lifetime of effortful learning, it's just so much more comfortable to live in this nice illusion that we know much more than we actually do." (9)

At Freedom Focused, we fully acknowledge how far science has come over the centuries and millennia; and we are so grateful for that knowledge! Such progress has provided us with much information about how, when, and where the Universe was created. It has also driven the industrial, technological, medical, and information revolutions that have transformed life on this planet into such a relatively advanced, comfortable, and safe realm in which to reside.  

Our Universe remains Mysterious to even the
most knowledgeable among us.
Despite this knowledge, however, science can tell us nothing about why (for what purpose) the Universe was created, whether there is more than one universe, and whether creation was aided by the direction of an intelligent (i.e. divine) source (or not).

Moreover, any astronomer or physicist worth their salt will tell you that our unknowns still greatly outnumber our knowns in both fields of inquiry. In fact, the smarter (wiser) the scientist, the less they will claim to know in comparison to what yet remains mysterious about the our unspeakably extraordinary and unfathomably gargantuan Universe.  

While there is no shortage of conjectures, hypotheses, suggestions, and wild guesses to these questions and mysteries, the reality is that we humans remain rather infantile in our total understanding of a great many things both in our world and throughout the known Universe. 

Black holes, cancer, AIDS, Alzheimer's disease, faster-than-light travel, time travel, string theory, mental illness, and many elements of quantum mechanics are just a few examples of scientific, medical, and technological mysteries that remain unsolved and will likely continue to challenge mortals in this world indefinitely into the future. 

Another reality about humankind, however, is that a lot more data exists than that which is measured only in the physical realm. The metaphysical realm also has a cornucopia of data to explore as well. Indeed, many and varied are the reports of human beings who have experienced déjà vu, spiritual and visceral intuition, premonitions of impending danger, supernatural visions and/or visitations, and out-of-body experiences (i.e. near-death experiences). 

The sheer quantity of such experiences throughout human history is so diverse and expansive (collectively speaking) that they cannot possibly be codified, although if they could they would perhaps require 13-or-more digits to both accurately and adequately quantify.

Those who choose to rely solely on physical knowledge about life and the Universe drastically limit themselves and turn their backs to a vast ocean of metaphysical data that can be accessed through a combination of cognitive rationality, experiential common sense, and visceral intuitiveness, openness, and humility. 

It is so much easier to arrogantly assert that there is no absolute truth than it is to humbly commit to the hard work required to discover and discern what is, in fact, absolutely true! Such assertions seemingly absolve you of a "lifetime of effortful learning" (9a) and searching. But in reality, they only leave you further in the dark. 

The "there is no absolute truth" concept is a convenient credo because it opens the door to moral relativity and moral relativism is easier to stomach (in the short run) than the fact that all actions are governed by Universal Laws that enforce natural consequences over time.

Let's face up to the fact that it is simply human nature to pursue what we want to do rather than what we should do.

Moral relativism is appealing to many because it negates accountability with the specious claim that no one moral code is better than another. After all, who wants to admit that they (or their moral code) might be wrong, misguided, myopic, stubborn, foolish, or even evil?

It takes a noble—and humble—person to do that.

And unfortunately, noble and humble persons—aka SELF-ACTION LEADERS—are not a dime-a-dozen in our world.  

One of the most tragic absurdities about human nature is our tendency to invest our greatest efforts convincing ourselves—and others—that we are right, instead of spending our time and energy trying to learn was actually is right.

At Freedom Focused, we declare in words of soberness and solemnity that TRUTH with a capital "T" does exist absolutely, and so does deception and error. Moreover, there is a difference between Right and wrong and Good and evil just as surely as there is a difference between light and dark and hot and cold.

If YOU are convinced otherwise and unwilling to consider this proposed alternative viewpoint, this comprehensive Life Leadership textbook will be only minimally helpful and you will be unable to rise to the highest levels of Existential Growth. 

If, on the other hand, YOU are willing to acquiesce to the reality of certain absolutes, these books will prove very beneficial in aiding your quest to rise to the pinnacle of your personal and professional potential.  

To sum up, TRUTH is, always has been, and always will be.

The question is not whether it exists or not; the question is whether or not YOU and I possess the desire, determination, persistence, resiliency, and work ethic required to seek it out and then consistently and faithfully abide by it throughout our lives. In the stirring oratory of Sir Winston Churchill: The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, and ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is.


"The truth is incontrovertible.
Malice may attack it and ignorance may deride it;

But in the end, there it is!"

—Sir Winston Churchill



Whose Truth

In all this talk about truth, a question naturally arises: If truth exists absolutely, then whose truth is the TRUTH? Is it mine? Is it yours? Is it somebody else's? 

The answer is: It's nobodies.

Truth does not exist solely in one creed, doctrine, dogma, or philosophy. Moreover, it exists outside of human opinion, perception, whim, and will. Just because a person standing next to me sees something differently than I do in a painting doesn't change the fact that we are still looking at the same work of art.  

Truth exists outside of human desires and inclinations. It's defined and described by opposition and enforced by natural consequences driven and operated by Universal Law. 

No one owns the truth.

        Truth just is.

With this said, there are, of course, many great minds, hearts, and spirits throughout human history who have effectively articulated aspects of truth. At Freedom Focused, we seek earnestly to identify and then share wisdom from the past that best articulates TRUTH.

This Textbook for Life is full of this shared wisdom.   


To Every Action...

For every thought, word, and deed you decide to engage in your life, you also choose a corresponding consequence. This is a fundamental TRUTH—whether you know it, like it, or want it to be that way, or not.

Simply stated: When you pick up ONE side of a stick YOU pick up the other side right along with it.

Isaac Newton scientifically canonized the concept of consequences when he taught the world that great truth of mechanical physics: For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

This famous physical law, known today as Newton's Third Law of Motion, has a corresponding law in the metaphysical realm. The only difference is the time lapse between the action and reaction. In the physical world, reactions typically follow actions relatively quickly, if not immediately. 

For example, if a speeding car slams into another car (action), both cars will immediately incur damage (reaction). 


Metaphysical Consequences Take Time to Materialize

In the metaphysical realm, it usually takes a lot longer for a "reaction" to follow a given "action." In some cases, it may take weeks, months, years, decades, or even a lifetime or more for all consequences to fully manifest themselves following a given action or set of actions. 

Don't let the delays fool you!

Just like the physical world, Universal Laws dictate the reactions that eventually follow all metaphysical actions (e.g. thought, desire, intention, deception, inaction, moral lapse, etc.).  

How much time is required to accurately classify a thought, word, action, habit, or lifestyle as "Good" or "bad"? In other words, how much time does the "Long Run" entail? 

The answer to this question is: It depends. 

Moreover, it varies widely from decision-to-decision, situation-to-situation, and circumstance-to-circumstance. 

Physical consequences can, of course, come quickly or even immediately. For example, put your hand on a red (or blue) hot stove and you will speedily become acquainted with the laws of thermodynamics and heat transfer; and it will hurt—badly. 

Other consequences take much longer to materialize.

For example, mistreating a friend, colleague, or loved one probably won't poison the relationship immediately. It may take years or even decades of disrespect and abuse for a close relationship to finally collapse, although there will likely be a lot of pain along the pathway to its terminus. 

Similarly, people usually don't die quickly from a single cigarette, alcoholic drink, drug "hit," or a sexually promiscuous or other physically dangerous lifestyle. They usually die slowly from prolonged patterns of poor life choices they have embraced steadily over time. 

The danger in "testing" or "trying" out risky behaviors and lifestyles is less in the sampling itself, and more in the heightened potential of developing a habit that could prove addictive and destructive over time. That, of course, is why it is wise to stay clear of some behaviors entirely; because in most cases, it simply isn't worth the risks involved.

With some actions and activities, ONCE is too many!

I have a close friend who chooses to not touch alcohol because members of his family have struggled with alcoholism and he knows he has the "addiction gene." Would it be okay if he sampled an occasional sip of beer or wine?

Perhaps.

        But for him, it just isn't worth the risk of what it could potentially lead to. 

He is a wise man!

This example reminds me of a story you may have heard before, but is worth retelling. There was once a man who owned a truck driving company and needed to hire additional drivers. During the job interviews, he asked prospective employees how close they believed they could get to a curvaceous mountainous road without falling off the cliff.

Some applicants—the one's desiring to brag about their driving acumen and precision expertise on the road—claimed they could get precariously close (within a few inches, centimeters, or even millimeters) to the edge and still remain safely atop the cliff. Other, less confident and experienced drivers answered more conservatively, saying they could only get one or two "feet" away. A few wiser and more responsible and sensible drivers answered as follows: "I always stay as far away from the edge as possible!" 

Who do you think the man hired to drive his trucks?  

        The conservative, responsible, and safe drivers—of course!

Some consequences of our actions can take decades or the better part of a lifetime to materialize. For example, dishonest CEOs (e.g. Ken Lay, Bernie Madoff, Sam Bankman-Fried and many others) corrupt politicians (e.g. Richard Nixon, Rod Blagojevich, George Santos and many others) or murderous autocrats (e.g. Adolf Hitler, Saddam Hussein, and Muammar Gaddafi) often live in the lap of debauchery, ease, luxury, and power for years or even decades before their evil actions and licentious lifestyles catch up to them and they are finally brought to justice.  

Some consequences take generations, centuries, or even millennia to fully flesh themselves out. Consider, for example, how long it took the medical field to discover the existence and impact of bacteria and germs, or to figure out that bleeding a patient was a counterproductive method of supposed "healing." Even though germ theory was proposed by various persons throughout the ages, the idea didn't become mainstream until well after Louis Pasteur published his papers on fermentation and silkworm health in the 1860s. 

Louis Pasteur
1822-1895
One of the delayed consequences of Pasteur's publications was Joseph Lister's research, which led to the introduction of sterile surgical practices in the 1870s. "Listerine" was later developed and named after Lister. Similar disinfecting products, such as antibacterial soap were also developed as a delayed and positive consequence of the groundbreaking work of Pasteur, Lister, and others.

What about the rise and fall of nations and empires?

It took several generations for the communist Soviet empire to fall, but when it did, it fell hard and fast. Other nations have faced more gradual declines. The mighty Roman Republic—and later Roman Empire—ruled the ancient world for nearly a thousand years. Yet, whatever remains of it today lies in ruins, and its once-mighty language (Latin) while still studied and used ceremoniously in some quarters, is officially dead.  

A great truism about True Principles rooted in Universal Laws is that results often take time to measure. (10) This is especially true in the metaphysical realms of our lives. The delayed reactions surrounding cognitive, social, and moral actions can make future consequences seem and feel unclear and uncertain.

Because of this ambiguity, humans must consistently exercise both discipline and faith all along the way. The right course of action will not always be crystal clear in any given situation or circumstance. Nevertheless, it is always incumbent upon YOU to try your best to decipher, discern, and discover the truth of a matter and then courageously act in accordance with your finite knowledge, wisdom, and the whisperings of your conscience.  


Philosophical Windows to the Truth

Philosophically speaking, the SAL Theory and Model both draw heavily from Immanuel Kant's deontological embrace of Universal Laws, John Stuart Mill and Jeremy Bentham's views on utilitarianism, and Aristotle's Golden Mean.


Immanuel Kant
1724-1804
Window to the Truth #1: Kant's Universal Laws

Immanuel Kant (1724-1804) was a German philosopher of the eighteenth century who taught the existence of irrevocable Universal Laws. Kant was a deontologist, meaning he believed human beings have certain Existential Duties and obligations set forth not by any mortal being or Earthly tribunal, but by Universal Laws themselves. 

Kant is famous for coining the term—Categorical Imperative—which describes our absolute duty to align our conduct with Universal Laws. 

According to Kant, when a human being obeys the edicts of a Universal Laws even though one feels disinclined to do so, they are exercising a Good Will. In other words, we are at our very best as humans when we do what is right even—and especially—when we don't feel like it. 

Existential Growth requires that you to accept the reality of both physical and metaphysical Universal Laws and then exercise a Kantian Good Will in obeying them—whether you feel like it or not.

Abraham Lincoln
1809-1865
Abraham Lincoln once reiterated this deontological principle rooted in Kantian philosophy when he said: Let us have faith that right makes might, and in that faith, let us, to the end, dare to do our duty as we understand it.   


"Let us have faith that right makes might, and in that faith, let us,
to the end, dare to do our duty as we understand it." (11)

—Abraham Lincoln


Jeremy Bentham
1748-1832
Window to the Truth #2: Bentham & Mill's Utilitarianism

Jeremy Bentham (1748-1832) and John Stuart Mill (1806-1873) were English philosophers who promoted a philosophy that "Right Action" is accomplished by making decisions whose consequences will bring about the most possible happiness (or benefit) to the greatest number of people. 

John Stuart Mill
1806-1873
This philosophy is known as Utilitarianism.

Utilitarianism should not be equated with a mere "Ends justify Means" philosophy. In the clarifying words of Mill, "In the golden rule of Jesus of Nazareth, we read the complete spirit of the ethics of utility. 'To do as you would be done by,' and 'to love your neighbor as yourself,' constitute the ideal perfection of the utilitarian morality." (12)


Aristotle
384-322 BC
Window to the Truth #3: Aristotle's Golden Mean

According to the great Greek philosopher, Aristotle (384-322 BC), truth, virtue, or the "Ultimate Good" is defined as a balance between excess and deficiency. This balance, or Happy Medium, is known as the Golden Mean.

Such balance creates a target that helps self-action leaders avoid the error of extremes, which is useful since virtually all errors, evil, and vice occur through thinking, saying, or doing either too little—or too much—of something.












The Triadic Golden Mean of SAL

SAL Theory expands on Aristotle's conception of the Golden Mean to introduce a triad of variables, the perfect balance of which lead a self-action leader to identify truth and make correct decisions. These three variables are as follows:


  • Rationality   (reason and logic)
  • Common Sense   (derived from experience—your own and that of others throughout history)
  • Conscience   (visceral intuition). (13)





Sometimes a single variable is sufficient to determine the right course of action in a given situation or circumstance. For example: many of the routine, daily tasks we tackle each day can be successfully navigated by the simple use of common sense (experience) and/or rationality (logic). Other decisions involving leadership, management, relationships, and morality are more complicated and require the added consultation of conscience (visceral intuition).

Self-action leaders strive to cultivate and consult all three variables rather than relying on just one or two. 

A limited focus inhibits your Existential Growth and stunts your capacity to live life fully. 

For example: an imbalanced RATIONALIST may be academically gifted, but narcissistic, nihilistic, and have trouble forming meaningful interpersonal relationships. 

Someone who relies only on common sense may be pragmatic and secure physically and financially speaking, but fail to rise to their fullest potential because of their unwillingness to take risks in promotion of further growth and progress. 

Conversely a person crunched too tightly into the corner of conscience may fall asleep void of guilt, but may do so on a "pillow of stone," (14) bereft of creature comforts and conveniences made possible by rational, common-sense living.


Recognizing Truth

Some truths, like certain laws of science and mathematics, can be scientifically observed and empirically verified. For example: water boils at 212 degrees Fahrenheit (100 degrees Celsius), and Earth is situated 93 million miles away from its sun. 

Other truths cannot be seen, but can still be scientifically validated (e.g. the existence of cellular, gamma, micro, radio, and x-rays).

Still other truths cannot be proven scientifically, but can be verified (or at least effectively postulated) by experiential evidence over time (e.g. I made a wise choice in taking a calculated risk as evinced by the positive long-term benefits of that decision).

In making said judgments, never forget that "results take time to measure." (15). As such, beware of pursuing courses of action or lifestyles that feel right in the moment, but which very well may bring about disturbing and painful consequences that inhibit your Existential Growth in the future. 

Consider the following ACTIONS you can take to avoid these preventable consequences:

  • Listen carefully to, and then follow the direction of, your conscience.
  • Cultivate associations with people who are both honest and wise.
  • Undertake a careful study of human history.

The Role of Conscience

Truth can be found in many different places. Likewise, incomplete truths, half lies, and outright deceptions exist amidst many philosophies, dogmas, doctrines, and creeds. Frustratingly, there is also a lot of truth that we simply don't know yet. But not knowing something doesn't negate its reality; it merely means we are presently unable to discover, access, or measure it. 

Case in point: the galactic cluster M-39 will continue existing with or without your knowledge, concern, or consent!

True (or good) principles can only be verified scientifically after the materialization of all consequences. This means principles not proven true with short-term experiments require extended periods of time—i.e. decades, generations, centuries, or even millennia—to be "proven" sufficiently to satisfy skeptics.

The GOOD news is that if you had enough time, data, and research, you could probably prove many metaphysical principles to be right or wrong using empirical experimentation alone.

The bad news is that you and I don't have centuries or millennia in our relatively brief lifetimes to figure out everything that is, or is not, true from a strictly scientific standpoint. As such, those waiting on science to tell them the truth about everything will surely die disappointed.  

That is where history comes in! 

Studying history provides us with the centuries and millennia of data and experience we ourselves lack.  

In a world of finite knowledge,
Conscience Counts!
Unfortunately, there are many physical and metaphysical realities of life that either can't or won't be proven scientifically and/or empirically in our lifetimes. This includes current theories about astronomy, physics, medicine, psychology, sexuality, spirituality, religion, philosophy, morality, interpersonal relations, and an afterlife (or lack thereof). 

What are you to do in situations where scientifically validated answers are unavailable? The answer to this important question lies in studying history and learning to viscerally discern right from wrong by developing a strong visceral connection to your conscience.

Some believe that the visceral intuitions of conscience serve as suprarational communiqué from a Higher Power.

I am one of these believers.

Others view these internal communications as entirely instinctual, or perhaps even as a by-product of involuntary physical processes, such as indigestion or upset gas. Some cast the entire concept off as pseudo-spiritual psychobabble. Many make an array of life's most important decisions by listening to the still, small voice of one's conscience. And many others ignore it repeatedly until its voice either dims considerably or falls terminally silent. 

To achieve the Aristotelian virtue accessed within the Golden Mean, visceral wisdom must be balanced by empirically validated and rationale science—and vice versa. One without the other leads to dangerous extremes and debilitating myopia. Blindly following your intuition with no consideration of logic, reason, and the experiences of others throughout history may lead to overzealous recklessness. 

On the other hand, a pure intellectualism that is not tempered by the compassion and concern of conscience easily becomes a cold, loveless, and joyless existence, bound by the narrow limits of empirical observation. 

Theodore Roosevelt
1858-1919
In politics, the former sometimes manifests as fascism or religious extremism, while the latter might morph into communism. Both extremes are dangerous and undesirable for the common citizen. In the insightful words of Theodore Roosevelt: We can just as little afford to follow the doctrinaires of an extreme individualism as of an extreme socialism. (16) 


"We can just as little afford to follow the doctrinaires of an extreme individualism as of an extreme socialism."

—Theodore Roosevelt


In a world increasingly beset by the errors of extremism on all sides, Aristotle's Golden Mean, in all of its balanced majesty, rises triumphantly as a philosophical phoenix of truth and ideological egalitarianism flying forth out of the sordid ashes of political and cultural postmodernism. 

Just as your mind, heart, sociality, and conscience must be properly balanced for you to be fully functional and healthy as a human being, so must visceral wisdom compensate for the shortcomings of science. And since human visceral intuition can easily go awry, science must likewise provide a tempering rationality. 

Moreover, while the crystal ball of history does not always perfectly predict the future, its vast storehouses of experiential wisdom should be robustly researched and routinely reviewed to inform present and future actions.

To reiterate—and add a few additional words of wisdom from—the great historians Will and Ariel Durant: 

"Intellect is ... a vital force in history, but it can also be a dissolvent and destructive power. Out of every hundred new ideas ninety-nine will probably be inferior to the traditional responses which they propose to replace. No one [person], however brilliant or well-informed, can come in one lifetime to such fullness of understanding as to safely judge and dismiss the customs or institutions of his society, for these are the wisdom of generations after centuries of experiment in the laboratory of history. ...

"So the conservative who resists change is as valuable as the radical who proposes it—perhaps as much more valuable as roots are more vital than grafts. It is good that new ideas should be heard, for the sake of the few that can be used; but it is also good that new ideas should be compelled to go through the mill of objection, opposition, and contumely; this is the trial heat which innovations must survive before being allowed to enter the human race. It is good that the old should resist the young, and that the young should prod the old; out of this tension, as out of the strife of the sexes and the classes, comes a creative tensile strength, a stimulated development, a secret and basic unity and movement of the whole." (17)



In Your Journal

  • What is an area of your life that is presently out of balance?
  • Would you classify this area of your life as suffering from a deficiency or an excess?
  • What is something you could begin doing today to restore equilibrium to this area?
  • How might Bentham and Mill's concept of Utilitarianism inform or change your decisions moving forward?
  • How might Kant's concept of a Good Will and the Categorical Imperative inform or change your decisions moving forward?
  • How might Aristotle's Golden Mean provide additional insights into the long-term direction of your education, career, and/or life?

 

—Dr. JJ

Wednesday, June 19, 2024
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA


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Chapter 5 Notes

1.  Peck, M. S. (1993). Further Along the Road Less Traveled: The Unending Journey Toward Spiritual Growth (The Edited Lectures). New York, NY: Simon and Schuster. Page 75.

2.  Lewis, C. S. (2001). Mere Christianity. San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco. Page 142.

3.  Scott, W. (1812). Marmion: A Romance in Six Cantos. Canto VI. Section XVII. Lines 27-28. The Poetical Works of Walter Scott, Esq. Vol. 3. Page 216. Baltimore, MD: Published by Joseph Cushing. William Fry, Printer. Google Books version.

4.  Covey, S. R. (1989). The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change. New York, NY: Fireside. Page 35.

5.  Ibid. 

6.  Lewis, C. S. (2001). Mere Christianity. San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco. Pages 6-7.

7.  James, W. (1884) The Dilemma of Determinism.

8.  Peck, M. S. (1993). Further Along the Road Less Traveled: The Unending Journey Toward Spiritual Growth (The Edited Lectures) New York, NY: Simon and Schuster. Page 75.

9.  Ibid.

9a.  Ibid.

10.  Smith, H.W. (1994). The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management: Proven Strategies for Increased Productivity and Inner Peace. New York, NY: Warner Books. Page 145. 

11. Lincoln, A. 1860. Cooper Union Address. Brooklyn, NY. February 27, 1860.

12.  Mill, J.S. in Keller, D., Ed. (2002). Ethics and Values: Basic Readings in Theory and Practice. Boston, MA: Pearson. Page 95.

13.  In conjunction with Aristotle’s philosophy of the Golden Mean, the Triadic Golden Mean of SAL was further inspired by Stephen R. Covey’s model of leading a powerful life, which requires a balanced approach among four key elements (vision, discipline, passion, and conscience). See Covey, S.R. (2004). The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness. New York: NY, Free Press. See Chapter 5 (Pages 64-93, and page 65 for “Leading a Powerful Life” model – Figure 5.2).

14.  From Holland, J.G.’s poem, Gradatim, in In Cook, R.J. (1958/1997). One Hundred and One Famous Poems: With a Prose Supplement (Revised Edition). Lincolnwood, IL: Contemporary Books. Page 127.

15.  Smith, H. W. (1994). The 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management: Proven Strategies for Increased Productivity and Inner Peace. New York, NY: Warner Books. Page 145.

16.  Roosevelt, T. (1910). Citizenship in a Republic. Speech delivered at the Sorbonne. Paris, France. April 23, 1910.

17.  Durant, W. and Durant, A. (1968). The Lessons of History. New York, NY: Simon and Schuster Paperbacks. Pages 35-36.

Wednesday, October 13, 2021

The Purpose of Life

Dr. JJ is a newly minted Cub Scout Den Leader
I recently became a Cub Scout Den Leader. 

I have never wanted to become a Cub Scout Den Leader. In fact, on my lifelong bucket list—which is LONG indeed—being a Cub Scout Den Leader ranks right down near the bottom next to scrubbing mildew in the shower, stubbing my toe, and banging my head against a concrete wall. 

This being the case, why on Earth would I accept an invitation to become a Cub Scout Den Leader if I don't have to? It's not like someone is forcing me to take on that added responsibility and duty in my life.   

Good Question!  

The rejoinder to this interrogatory is the subject of this week's blog post—and the answer is this...

Because I love my kids and it is the RIGHT thing for me to do at this particular time in my life—whether I feel like it or not.

In other words, the answer is: DUTY and LOVE—two words that self-action leaders uphold as a generalized, yet ultimate response to the piercing and perennial existential query: What is the purpose of life? Distilled down to its purest essence, Duty and Love do indeed serve as the most succinct statements articulating the Purpose of our Lives. 

We live in a world where duty and love too often take a back-seat to pleasure-seeking, instant gratification, and lust. The problem with these troubling trends is that disaster lurks in the shadows whenever and wherever the devils of our nature overtake the angels thereof.

You don't have to be religious (or even spiritual) to accede this highly practical and common-sense notion. It's just a mathematical reality, especially as judged over time.  

The ultimate goal of education should be to develop
good habits and learn to take personal responsibility.
Perhaps the single-most important lesson that self-action leaders ever learn is that the purpose of life is not primarily to do what you want to do. The primary purpose of life is to do what you ought to do when it needs doing for the long-term benefit of yourself and others—whether you feel like it in the moment, or not.

In articulating this fundamental SAL principle, I echo the inspired words of Thomas Huxley, who once wrote:

"The most valuable result of all education is to make you do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not. It is the first lesson that ought to be learned. And however early a man [or woman's] training begins, it is probably the last lesson that he [or she] learns thoroughly." 

— Thomas Huxley

Simply stated, self-action leaders are selfless, responsible, and disciplined people. And not merely because being selfless, responsible, and disciplined are RIGHT things to do. Self-action leaders also practice these virtues because they understand that doing so is the best way of guaranteeing what they want most—which is positive, productive, and personally satisfying results in the LONG-RUN.

In the LONG-RUN I say! (1)  

Self-Action Leaders consistently make decisions by looking way down
the road to determine LONG-TERM consequences of those decisions.  
Don't get the wrong idea... self-action leaders are keenly aware of what they personally want most. In fact, I would argue that self-action leaders know better what they authentically want (in the long-run) than most other people—and they indefatigably pursue their deepest and most authentic wants until they eventually obtain them.

I know I do!

But they do so in a very particular way—a way that sets them on apart from most others. This way involves traversing the less traveled pathways of success, which, unlike the well-beaten pathways of mediocrity and failure, lead ultimately to the greatest achievements, pleasures, prosperity, joys, riches, and peace that life has to offer in the long-run.

In the LONG-RUN I say! (1)

Ahhhh!  What was I thinking?
Those who pursue the well-traveled pathways of pleasure-seeking, instant gratification, and lust, usually obtain at least a measure of what they seek in the short-run. But in the long run, they come to discover that whatever short-term payments they may have accrued in-the-moment are not only cankeringly temporary, but they also travel with much unwanted baggage in the form of negative consequences and painful regrets.

Even more tragically, said persons often end up like the bedeviled soul in the Screwtape Letters (Letter XII), who, at the end of his life tragically laments the cruel irony of his own ill-advised decisions, leading him to transparently confess: "I now see that I spent most of my life doing neither what I ought nor what I liked." (1a)

In other words, for his primal pursuit of pleasure, our hedonistic and otherwise unwise human was rewarded not only an eternal estate among the morally degenerate, but he ironically managed to accrue a mere modicum of pleasure along his journey through this world as well.

If such a deal sounds like a "Catch 22," that's because it is!  

How can we as self-action leaders avoid this pathetically sullen, yet surprisingly common (and deeply regrettable) state of being in our own lives? 

We all have duties in our lives and careers.
What are yours?  And are you faithful at attending
to them in a conscientious and timely manner?
We may do so by carefully balancing the prioritization of our personal wants with the existential duties incumbent upon all who grace this Planet in human form.

Stated more simply, we prioritize our existential duties over our personal desires. In other words, we develop the capacity to consistently do what is RIGHT even—and perhaps especially—when doing so is inconvenient or uncomfortable.    

To illustrate what this process looks like in real life, consider the following example from my own life...

Since I was just a teenager, I have had a deep-seated desire to travel the world teaching true principles of human thought, speech, and action. I am absolutely obsessed with such things and my greatest and most healthy outlet is to either write and speak or teach on related subjects. Attending this goal is an accompanying desire to be a successful author, leader, organizer, builder, and influential agent of change on a macro scale. 

To accomplish these important, life-long desires of mine, I have invested tens of thousands of hours of thought, reading, study, formal education, and practice over the course of more than 30 years. Suffice it to say, I have, for a very long period of time, paid a very high price to become the kind of person who is capable of realizing these deep, penetrating, and authentic desires of my heart. 

2015 Version of SAL Textbook
In the fall of 2015, I self-published a compilation of my life's work to date in a life leadership textbook that was nearly 700 pages long. It was the fifth (5th) iteration/edition of this present work. That means I had been working diligently since 2003 on the message contained in this comprehensive textbook.

After traveling the English-speaking world as a contract speaker and trainer for the better part of a decade, publishing several books and hundreds of articles in newspapers and other periodicals, earning an accredited doctoral degree, and investing a DOZEN years in creating the structure and substance of the SAL Theory & Model, it seemed to me that surely the time had come when I could finally begin to enter a place where I might begin traveling the world to teach and train others in the principles and practices to which I had so diligently dedicated my own life.

But it was not to be. 

          In fact, as it turned out, I was not even close!

Despite all my efforts and sacrifices over the years, and regardless of the punctiliousness, persistence, and perspiration involved in my painstaking preparation, I was not about to enter the full-flowering of my career as a speaker, writer, and leader back in 2015. 

I was about to become a full-time stay-at-home Dad!

To date, academe wants nothing to do with Self-Action Leadership.
In the meantime, the world burns as the "Powers-that-Be" continue to
turn a blind eye to the only REAL solution to the madness.
Fortunately, Freedom Focused is a patient organization.
We will simply wait and continue preparing until we are called upon.
And guess how I got things kicked off?

By getting rejected by 70 different colleges and universities for 100 different academic teaching/researching positions all over the world, thus guaranteeing that I would remain a stay-at-home dad for the foreseeable future.

Instead of becoming a bestselling author or entering the college classroom, I began changing diapers and babysitting a one-year old and a three-year old on a full-time basis. 

I'm not going to lie... that first year of full-time "Daddying" just about killed me, both emotionally and physically—not because it was so incredibly difficult (although it definitely was!) but because it was so fundamentally different from my previous life as a traveling contract trainer. The contrast I experienced moving from the world of being a traveling career professional to becoming a full-time stay-at-home parent was a profound shock to my entire system.        

My three- and one-year old in 2016.
I did not, of course, literally die from this experience. Because I refused to quit, things got easier over time, which is what always happens if you refuse to give up in the face of difficulty or adversity.   

Part of this easing process involved rounding the learning curve. Gaining knowledge and experience did not change the difficulty-at-hand, but it did change ME, which in-turn made my difficulties less challenging.

Thus it is that: "Nothing is really hard or easy; there is only your ability (or lack thereof) to do."

"Nothing is really hard or easy.  There is only your ability (or lack thereof) to do." 

— Dr. JJ      

Sketch of Thoreau's homebuilt cabin
near Walden Pond in Massachusetts.
And as the American philosopher, Henry David Thoreau once aptly put it: Things don't change; We change."

"Things don't change.  We change."

— Thoreau   

Another aspect of this gradual easing involved the natural change and growth processes occurring within my kids as I loved, cared for, nurtured, taught, and mentored them. Thus, after a couple of years, my one- and three-year-old became a three- and five-year-old, which provided a significantly different (and easier) parenting dynamic for me.

Then, in 2018, my wife and I decided to invite child number three into the world, thus begging the question: Am I a glutton for punishment or as committed to LOVE and DUTY as I claim to be?

I'll let YOU answer that question for yourself.

With my three kids, aged 6, 4, and <1 in 2019.
I must confess, despite nearly SIX (6) years of practice now, I have never become fully accustomed to my role as a full-time stay-at-home parent—nor do I think I ever will for that matter.

Despite all the plusses and perks—and there are a number of them (e.g. naps, deepened relationships with kids, trips to fun places and other wonderful memories, autonomy over my schedule, etc.)—I still find myself uncomfortable in my present role. Indeed, every single day brings difficulties and the whole deal remains well outside my comfort zone.  

Growing up, I never saw myself tending kids full-time. In fact, I rarely even envisioned myself as a parent—period. In the back of my mind, I always knew that I most likely would be a parent eventually, but I rarely thought about what the full job description would actually entail—particularly with me slotting unexpectedly into the starring role.

As a child, adolescent, and young adult, I thought continually about marriage, getting married, and my future wife. But it was a different matter when it came to kids. So you can imagine how surprising and challenging these unexpected life duties have been for me.

But they are my LIFE DUTIES, and in conjunction with my faith and wife, constitute the most important things in my life, so do I really have any choice but to faithfully attend to these duties if I want to be a person of integrity and desire long-term happiness for my family and myself?

The answer to this question is self-evident and therefore rhetorical. And while clearly comprehending this fact does not eradicate the difficulty of my daily duties, it does help me find joy in the process and much hope for the relational riches to come as blessed by that existential compound interest, which (good or bad), comes to all of us in the future based on the choices we make in the past and present. Thus it is that in the end, we really do reap more-or-less precisely what we sow.

"As ye sow, so shall ye reap."

— The Law of the Harvest 
(As explicated in The Good Book)

Why is it that life seems so determined to give us opportunities to do the very things we would naturally avoid? For example, I don't particularly like (much less relate to) teenagers. I didn't understand teenagers when I was a teenager myself. And as an adult, I don't feel much closer to the little brutes (bless their hearts)! 

Despite this fact, I've spent five years in classrooms of various kinds as a substitute and/or full-time teacher on the middle and high school levels. I've also been an early-morning seminary (religious) instructor of teenagers not once, but twice, in two different states!

I remember the second time I was called to serve as an early-morning religious instructor; this time in the Great State of Texas. The call came during the late summer of 2016, which also happened to be my first (and most) difficult year as a full-time stay-at-home parent. And that was just one of many other challenges my family and I faced that year. 

Ever felt like life itself was singling you out and laughing at YOU?
The early morning class I was invited to teach began at 6:00 a.m. and consisted entirely of tenth graders. Of all the things in this world that DO NOT come naturally to me, 6:00 a.m. and tenth graders are near the tippy-top of my list!

I recall the bitterness and frustration that filled my mind, heart, and soul for the first couple of weeks after I received that calling. It seemed as though life was playing a practical joke on me and fiendishly laughing in the process.

Indeed, it felt as if life itself was pointing a finger of scorn at me and saying aloud: "Ha, ha, Jordan... you wanted to travel the world and teach millions about SAL after the sun was high in the sky; how about you stay put in Texas and teach religion to a dozen teenagers before the sun comes up instead?" 

There's your reward for all that effort and hard work! Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha!"   

My Great Aunt Dorothy was a "Mover
and a Shaker" in part because she
knew how to say: "No"
It's true that I could have said "No" to this invitation. 

An important lesson I learned from my Great Aunt Dorothy was that, and I quote: "You can always say 'No.'"

And there are times when I do say "No."


In fact, after spending an entire year teaching seminary and feeling like an exhausted zombie each day as I sought to care for my two kids under the age of four, my wise wife convinced me it was time to ask for a release.

She didn't have to ask twice!

I immediately asked for, and was gratefully granted, an honorable release by those who had called me to serve. 

To those who are scratching their heads and asking: "JJ: why in the world did you accept the calling in the first place?"

Good question!

The ANSWER is: because I learned long ago that it is selfish, short-sighted, and unwise to turn down an opportunity to give and serve when you have the time, means, and capacity to do so. Turning down opportunities to teach or serve other people cheats others out of many blessings. It also cheats YOU out of a goldmine of personal growth and other riches in the form of unique life experiences and meaningful interpersonal relationships.

On the other hand, it is not necessary for a self-action leader to run faster or work harder than he or she is able. Thus, there are times when a declination is the best response—something I am not afraid to invoke when necessary.

While certainly not my favorite thing to do, my experience teaching early morning seminary predictably turned into a positive experience for both the students and me. The students learned and grew in their knowledge and faith; and I grew, progressed, and gained additional practice in pedagogy and religion in conjunction with obedience and humility—two vital SAL virtues. But the fact remains that it was a difficult calling for me, and I was greatly relieved when I was eventually released—just as I will be greatly relieved when I am eventually released as a Cub Scout Den Leader! 

Let that new challenge begin!   

A section of Auschwitz-Birkenau prison in Poland
where Viktor Frankl suffered, reflected,
and achieved extraordinary Existential Growth.
Viktor Frankl, that famous psychotherapist who survived the horrors of Nazi brutality in Auschwitz, once wrote:

"What [is] really needed [is] a fundamental change in our attitude[s] toward life. We [all need] to learn ... that it [doesn't] really matter what we expect... from life, but rather what life expect[s]... from us. We need... to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as ... being questioned by life—daily and hourly. Our answer must consist ... of right action and ... right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual. 
These tasks, and therefore the meaning of life, differ from [person to person] and from moment to moment. ... Life does not mean something vague, but something very real and concrete, just as life's tasks are also very real and concrete. They form [our] destiny, which is different and unique for each individual. No [person] and no destiny can be compared with any other [person] or any other destiny. No situation repeats itself, and each situation calls for a different response. ... Every situation is distinguished by its uniqueness, and there is always only one right answer to the problem posed by the situation at hand." (2)

Throughout my life, LIFE itself has asked me to do a whole host of different things that I felt disinclined to do. In many cases, the prospect of tackling certain tasks and undertakings that, while clearly MY DUTY to perform, nevertheless engendered no small amount of fear and even dread. In those instances, I had a choice to make. Would I humbly and obediently submit myself to life's urgent, important, and compelling requests, or would I shrink away by pridefully and selfishly refusing said opportunities?

Robert Frost
(1874-1963)
Poet and author of "The Road Not Taken"
While I am far from perfect in practicing what I preach in regards to fully meeting the demands of both DUTY and LOVE in my life and career, I can say with a clear conscience that in the main, I have consistently and proactively chosen the Road Less Traveled in both my life and career.

And as Frost so perfectly and poetically put it: "That has made all the difference." (3). And the blessings and favors that have followed this pathway have been unspeakably lavish.

And it is only the beginning.  

In the short run, doing one's duty is often difficult and unpleasant. That is an absolutely omnipresent fact of life. But in the long-run, the rewards of doing so are so exorbitantly rich and plentiful that it is hard to believe that anyone in their right mind would ever choose any other pathway, no matter how adverse or challenging.  

For example, could there be anything more valuable than the depth and strength of my earned relationships with my wife and children because I have spent so much time serving and loving them since retiring as a contract trainer nearly SIX (6) years ago?

Or what about the positive and productive contribution I made to the lives of the hundreds of students I have influenced over the years? For most people, the answer to these questions are self-evident and therefore rhetorical. And so it is for me as well.

Thus, I have no regrets. 

Nevertheless, a lingering question still begs, as follows: Will my hoped-for and envisioned "day-in-the-sun" eventually arrive as a writer and speaker?

Perhaps?

     Probably?

          Fairly likely?

               Almost certainly?

                    Without any doubt or question? 

I might be envied by a King...  Cuz I'm a Family Man
If I were a betting man, I'd put my money on the last possibility; but that's just because I am, and always will be, a hope-filled optimist in my long-term outlook on everything in my life and career. 

Nevertheless, even if it doesn't turn out quite that way, I am—and am well positioned to remain—a very rich man. 

Why am I rich? 

Because I have deep, intimate, and richly satisfying family relationships. And I have the added luxury of being able to lay my head down upon my pillow each night with a clear conscience before God, man, and myself knowing that I have consistently striven to the best of my imperfect ability to faithfully attend to my DUTY while seeking sincerely to LOVE my fellowmen.

No personal or professional opportunity, accomplishment, remuneration, or reward can even begin to rival that kind of residual income-infused GOLDMINE.  

Whatever my future might bring, I am grateful that I recognize the profound truth that in the end, whatever I may personally want out of my life and career is far less important that what life itself wants out of me on a daily, even hourly basis throughout my life. Thus, in the end, my success will not be measured in books sold, dollars earned, employees hired, or miles traveled. It will be measured in the extent to which I did my duty and strove to do the RIGHT things every day of my life.

And that is what Self-Action Leadership is all about! 

Immanuel Kant
1724-1804
German Philosopher

I believe that accomplishing that is also what Immanuel Kant intended when he introduced his famous concept—the Categorical Imperative—into the lexicon of Western philosophy. 

In Kant's view, the most valuable and worthy human attribute is not talent, ability, wealth, power, luck, or good looks. The ultimate good for Kant is constituted in what he called a "Good Will" whereby an individual autonomously choose to align one's thoughts, speech, and behaviors with Universal Laws of Right Conduct even—and especially—when we DON'T feel like it. For those who align their conduct with Kantian categorical imperatives, "Joy is [truly] duty and Love is [truly] Law." (4)

In my personal and professional experiences, conscientiously and consistently attending to my DUTY, LOVING my fellowmen, and otherwise doing the RIGHT thing to the best of my imperfect ability—however difficult and time-consuming—is the best way to live in the long run.

Nay; that is too weak. Let's put it a little more strongly: it is the only way to live in the long run. This is because doing so is the only way to obtain the best possible results over time—for oneself and others. 

As human beings, we all know "that every[one] is free, to choose his life and what he'll be" (5). This liberty extends to making a wide array of choices that are wrong, foolish, selfish, short-sighted, etc. And in the short-term, said choices may bring about moments of enjoyment or escape. But if we are interested in lasting joy and peace of mind, there is only one pathway that leads thereto. And that pathway is The Road Less Traveled, which is marked by duty, responsibility, and right thinking, speaking, and doing.

THERE   IS  NO  OTHER  WAY.

In what ways are you currently being selfish or foolish in your own personal or professional thoughts, speech, or conduct? In what ways are your actions aimed at short-term fun, pleasure, or escape at the expense of long-term achievement, joy, and peace of mind? 

What is the current strength of your own Kantian Good Will? Are you in the habit of doing what is right even—and especially—when you don't feel like it, or when doing so is difficult or unpopular? Or are you apt to just give into selfish inclinations or momentary whims—you know, in taking the "easy way out"? 

Doing difficult things brings about a cornucopia of rewards.
Over time, we all eventually discover through our own experiences that "the easy way" out is, in reality, the hardest pathway to tread in the long-run. 

Likewise, the more difficult pathway up front typically leads us to an easier (and certainly more desirable) state of feeling and being in the long-run. In the words of Jerzy Gregorek: "Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life."

"Easy choices, hard life.

               Hard choices, easy life." 

— Jerzey Gregorek      

I invite you to take some time TODAY to ponder on the unique Purpose of YOUR OWN Life within a framework of the general purpose of all of our lives (Duty & Love). In so doing, I encourage you to be honest with yourself about your current habits of thought, speech, and action. Are these habits helping or hurting you and those you profess to care the most about?

Lastly, what is ONE thing you could begin doing TODAY to start re-charting a better, wiser, and more selfless course for your family, career, and life that will bring about the richest possible rewards in the END?

There's a little buffet of thought for you.

          Now get "eating"!    

  

-Dr. JJ

October 13, 2021
Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, USA

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Notes:

1. Frankl, V. (2006). Man's Search for Meaning. Boston, MA: Beacon Press. Page xv.

1a. Lewis, C.S. The Screwtape Letters. New York, NY: Bantam. Page 36

2. Ibid. Page 76.

3. Frost, R. The Road Not Taken (poem). 

4. Whittier, J.G. Maud Muller (poem). 

5. Miller, R.L. Know This, That Every Soul is Free (hymn).

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